socialdeviant620

u/socialdeviant620


Like most of my queens here, I'm exhausted by dating and I only occasionally step out of my cave to see if my needle is nearby. I only open FB dating maybe once a month or so, out of 20 matches, I might swipe on 2 and then happily go back to my cave.

I checked my messages for the first time in forever today and I saw a message from some waste of sperm who immediately hit me with "I'm not gonna waste time, I just wanna fuck..." I looked at the guy's pics (he totally wasn't my type), and then saw his poorly written profile and I knew for a fact that I'd never swipe right on this guy.

Then I looked at a few more messages in my inbox from men who I know damned well that I never swiped right on

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r/blackgirls•

So y’all, I have the absolute best therapist like ever! I’ve been seeing her for about 2 years now and I’ve made so much progress. I’ve had to address a lot of my past trauma and I’m a much more emotionally healthy version of myself thanks to her. I often joke that the only way I’ll stop showing up at her office is if they burn that place down.

About a year and a half ago, I had some stuff happen and I pretty much decided that for my own mental well-being, I’d be cutting out sex. I was really proud of myself and I allowed my nervous system to reset and I really started to evaluate for the first time how I was prioritizing sex, at my own emotional detriment. Some weeks back, my birthday hit,

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r/homeowners•

Not sure if this is the right place to put this, but I wanted opinions here. I have a door that goes straight to my car port. So when I park under it, I go straight through that door into the house. Today, when I went out, I'd found some JW literature that someone left at my door, underneath the carport. I felt a bit violated, because most visitors would go to the front door and knock or leave papers, not going around to the side.

I didn't realize that I'd felt that way about that space, until it happened. Does anyone else quietly feel that the carport is only for people living in the home, or guests who are already familiar with the home?

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r/madmen•

That part always stuck with me. How Peggy was in on the joke, until it crossed a line and she did what needed to be done. Joey was creating a hostile work environment and despite everything, Joan was high enough that he should have known better than to mess with her. Joey said and did horrific things, but other than some biting words, she didn't do anything to shut him down. Did Joan have some sort of master plan, or was she intending to let him keep going? Did Peggy do the right thing to fire him? Why was Joan so angry with her for getting rid of him?

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r/blacktravel•

I'm chilling at a hotel for a weekend getaway and I tried to turn on my TV last night for some background noise, but I couldn't get the remote to turn it on, so I changed my mind. Then I thought about it and I realized that I rarely use hotel tvs. Either it's because I'm too busy running around, nothing good is on anyway, or I can't work their system. One hotel tried to bill me for TV use, so I noped out, another place wanted me to input my own Netflix info (which I don't remember), so I declined that too. Last night, I just decided to let YouTube play on my phone for background noise instead.

Anyway, are people still watching hotel tvs?

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r/blackgirls•

I was in a sub that helps identify if a video or pic is AI. In the posted pic, a wyhte woman (a teacher, no less) is in a convenience store, and starts hurling the n-word at the Black men in the store. Not surprisingly, one of the men yokes her up. The woman claimed the video was AI, even though all the experts there said the video looked legit.

One commenter basically implied how senseless it is to utilize violence, based on "words." I piped in that "certain words" most definitely sometimes have it coming and I was immediately downvoted and then blocked from the sub. I don't care about being blocked, I care about it still not being recognized that used in certain scenarios, the n-word is s

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r/goodfellas•

Like a lot of other folks, I became enamored with Henry after watching Goodfellas. Never read the book WiseGuys, but been meaning to. I also heard about some of his other exploits, but never bothered to look too deep into it.

Someone on this sub recommended "On the Run: Escaping a Mafia Childhood" by Henry's kids, Gregg and Gina Hill about their time in witness protection. Currently on it and loving it. What surprised me was how much they were essentially neglected and ignored while he continued to chase his next hustle. I also realized that the real life Henry was a hustler, but he didn't seem to be very smart.

For those of you who read the books and watched the real life interviews on hi

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r/blackladies•

I'll start. I had a guy tell me that having a master's degree meant was a problem. I had another guy tell me that men would be put off by my brightly colored hair, at the time.

What are some complaints men had about you that made him claim you weren't good dating material?

(Disclaimer* I don't care what males think about us, I want us to discuss how they try to make us feel bad for existing)

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