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My pwBPD does this to me so often, she accuses me of trying to manipulate and gaslight her when I’m really not. I know she genuinely believes it too, even though it feels like she’s always the one to do those things to me.

I’ve read multiple posts here in the last couple days where people have said their pwBPD accuse them of the same thing. Why is this so common? How often does this happen to you guys? Is pwBPD just totally out of touch with reality?

This is it. She told me the only way she could love me is if I sacrifice everything in the city we live in and move more than half way across the country with her. I almost did it. She promised me we could work on our relationship and build a foundation together, and be better together and she would work on herself... but I talked with a friend who knew about everything that has happened thus far, and he talked some sense into me. I can't isolate myself with someone that acts the way she has acted, on a whim that she'll change.

I told her I won't go with her, and she told me she hates me, I'm a failure as a husband, I never made her feel special, etc. I just don't understand how she can alw

We’re taking our first night apart and a he’s at her parent’s house with our son. She’s taken me off of her social media. She broke her sobriety. I’m doing everything I can to not worry about what she’s doing and to not text her or her mom.

She’s furious at me for talking to my friends and family about what she’s been putting me through because it “makes her feel embarrassed.”

All of my friends and family agree what she’s doing to me is abuse. She is adamant I’m the one abusing her, and that I’m the one neglecting her.

She always has someway of spinning things around, targeting it back at me. Idk what to do. I still love her.

I’m falling apart mentally; I feel like I’m going crazy.

Last weekend she’s holding me hostage saying the most horrible, awful, demeaning things to me, subjecting me to emotional abuse.

Tuesday she acknowledges it, says for the first time in her life she sees it, that she’s the problem and it’s not everyone else. She sees clearly, how she has ruined and damaged her relationships with friends and family.

She apologizes, promises to start therapy, becomes the sweetest person to ever walk the earth.

Thursday she finds out I talked to three different friends about what happened over the weekend. She immediately assumes I’m gossiping, making her out to be evil, embarrassing her for telling t

Context: I (22M) and my wife (24F) just had our baby four months ago. This last weekend I discovered what BPD is during a huge blow up. I have other reason to believe she is uBPD, but for this post I will only talk about this last weekend. I may make a future post going further in depth with our relationship. I greatly appreciate anyone who reads through and gives advice. She makes me feel horrible about myself most of the time and I don't know what to do.

Last Friday night, she was being extremely sweet, saying she loves me so much and how lucky she is to have me as a partner. Come Saturday morning we're perfectly fine until she asks a question she didn't want the answer to.

She asked

I’m so afraid of things not working out, of being stuck, not being enough. I hate the way my head works, the way I think about things, the way I see things. Through the depression, the anxiety, the anger issues, I’m alone in it all. I feel so isolated even when surrounded by so many people and friends. I feel like it’s so hard to get across what I’m saying or thinking. I feel so alone. I don’t want to be me.

I want to slam my head through the wall. I wish time would freeze for awhile. I don’t want to think or be.

I don't know if I'm losing my mind but the last patch feels extremely heavy and clunky; without any new items or anything and just laning, character movement feels off.

The new items, on top of this, feel awful. Not having tiamat active in top lane feels awkward, and mythic items feel extremely gimmicky. Being required to build a mythic item with a special quirk is uncomfortable, especially because you're punished for trying to build a legendary item instead.

Instead of overhauling the whole item system all at once, it would have made more sense to go class by class and accommodate over-tuned items or items on the stronger side with new items for other classes. Changing the entire system

I can literally never win on Scorched Earth and Hextech. Pool Party and SKT always seem to be the best for me.. it sucks since Hextech took forever to get ://