I have always been scared of having kids, but as I’ve grown I’ve come to understand myself better, and I genuinely believe that having kids is the right thing for me and my wife (she is on board with having kids, don’t worry, I’m not making that call for her). We have friends that love their kid, which is helpful, because the internet is rife with anti-kid rhetoric. Subreddits like r/kidsarecondomads are probably meant to be funny, but it feels like they are a place for angry people to be mad about kids being annoying.
Let me clarify: I’m not looking for a place to convince me to have kids or to hide the difficulties of having kids. I think I just need something refreshing and optimistic.





