r/AMABNonbinary

So most of my friends are gay men. And I’m comfortable in those spaces. That combined with a corporate job made me want to lean into dressing like a man. I even had a mustache and stopped estrogen. I think I thought it would be easier to find a man. But I got fired this week. The stress made me want to feel comfortable. I shaved the stash, wore fem clothes, shaved my body and mustache. I feel so much better. Am I nonbinary? Yes. But in like a primarily fem way. I’m trans femme and so grateful.

Hello! I'm Ky (I think, might change that but it's a childhood nickname that I chose when I came out) I'm tossing around the idea of getting on HRT I'm struggling with this decision because my goal is to be as androgynous as possible. At least visually. The reason I'm tossing the idea around is I don't want some of the effects that comes with it like Breast growth and... Shrinkage. I mostly want a softer face and too be perceived as an androgynous person. Does anyone know if hrt would be right for me?

Hey! 26 Canadian NB here. I’ve been struggling a lot with feeling like I belong in any specific queer communities in my area. It feels like I haven’t been able to connect or relate very well to a queer man scene. Sapphic scenes feel safe with my friend group (mostly femmes & lesbians) but feel very hesitant to accept me. The only group that has felt fully accepting is the kink scene, which has tended to a flavour of heteronormativity that usually ends in misgendering (both intentional and not).

I’m proudly myself and embrace my identity, which is respected by those I love, but it feels isolating to not be a part of a proverbial “guild” to call my own.

Any advice on finding community as s

Just curious

I’m non-binary and AMAB. I want a more feminine chest, but I’m really conflicted about my options.

I was considering starting HRT so I could grow some breast tissue and possibly get augmentation later. My worry is fertility—I really want biological kids someday, and I’m scared of permanently losing that ability.

Because of that, I thought about getting breast augmentation without HRT, but I’ve been told implants alone might not look natural on an AMAB chest.

Has anyone dealt with this or found a balance (like fertility preservation, low-dose HRT, or other options)? I’d really appreciate hearing experiences or advice.

What should I do. I hate being perceived as a man and I hate my male body. If I had to choose between a man or a woman I would choose being a woman but there’s nothing I can do about it.

So, I'm an AMAB Non-Binary individual. I never felt like I quite fit into the male "roles" or "stereotypes" as a kid and have always acted and felt more feminine. I know that those are usually attributed to being gay, but it was more than that. I didn't feel like a boy on the inside, and hearing all the adult men in my life talk about how they felt and seeing how they acted trying to teach me "how to be a man" just didn't feel right to me. Also being shown how women feel and how they act felt more in line with what I felt, but I didn't feel completely like a girl.

I started having gender dysphoria when I was about 13, shortly before I came out as Non-Binary; I'm 17 now btw. I also used to

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hello!!

i wanted to come on here and ask about a few things i’m confused about.

about me: im a masc presenting queer guy except for my voice, it gives off “oh he’s gay” lol. my whole life i’ve gone by he/him because i am amab and my family is pretty religious (catholic). I came out as gay at like 10 i had know i liked boys since i was pretty small but never said anything since its such a sin and i was “too young to understand”. Ive been questioning my gender for a while now, but i haven’t done research on it.

Although, i’ve never felt extreme discomfort in my own body, i never loved it i’ve always want to be more feminine and i have even thought about transitioning to feel more like “m