r/Femdom

174K archived posts · May 2009 – Sep 2026

r/femdom: For female dominants and people who adore them

r/Femdom

A place to enthusiastically indulge in your favorite fetish! **NO FINDOMS** **NO SOLICTING** **NO REPOST SPAM** Dedicated to discussions, FAQs and experiences related to female domination in BDSM. Please be respectful towards everyone. PLEASE READ THE RULES CAREFULLY BEFORE POSTING!

Created May 14, 2009 · NSFW

693KMembers (last snapshot)

174KArchived posts

##Welcome to r/Femdom

A place to enthusiastically indulge in your favorite fetish!

##What is Femdom? A Brief Introduction## Femdom stands for female domination

Femdom might be expressed in many ways, from the porn standard women in fetish gear and whips, to a D/s relationship where a woman is in charge with no additional props. In heterosexual relationships, femdom is often combined with elements that play with and explore gender roles, for example strapon play, where the submissive is penetrated, or cross dressing, often with the deliberate attempt to humiliate and demean or play with behaviors that are normally taboo to standard displays of masculinity.

A female dominant in a master/slave relationship is often termed a Mistress, not to be confused with the colloquial usage of mistress as a kept sexual partner without a similarly formalized power relationship.

##Spam Free Zone

###Permitted Content

Amateur videos and pictures
Questions/fantasies/stories
Femdom related images (prefer to be hosted on imgur or similar sites)
Videos (hosted on free video sites)
AMAs with VERIFICATION only, contact mods before posting

###Not Permitted (May lead to OP being banned)

NO DICK PICS! - This subreddit is not a dick gallery
NO PERSONALS of ANY kind. Soliciting for a partner, paid or not
Paysites & paygates
Referral links
Do not advertise your OF or other services you offer here or on your profile page
Soliciting for a partner, paid or not, including kik spam, advertising / forming groups or any other chat services.
No questions where you ask people to PM (private message) you

##Other Femdom Subreddits

More Reddit BDSM	Suggestions Welcomed
FemdomGoneWild	cbtBDSM
cfnmfetish
found_femdom	RuinedOrgasms
FemdomHumiliation	Sexfight
Facesitting	FemdomCreampie
FemdomPersonals
FemdomMatriarchy
FemdomSpanking
FemdomCommunity
r/Domina	/r/MommydomPersonals
FemdomCBT
##Sister Subreddits

All Orientations	& Kinky Friends
r/bdsm	/r/BDSMcommunity

##External Femdom Links

Other communities

Reddit Rebuilt is an independent, non-commercial archive and is not affiliated with Reddit, Inc. Content belongs to its original authors.