r/FindomOasis

327 archived posts · Apr 2024 – Jun 2026

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All eyes on Me.

NSFWSeeking Finsub

Aussie BBW Mistress with a taste for CBT, chastity and body worship.

Long term dynamics preferred, your age verification is a must.

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u/SoloButtaflii•

Dating

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Has findom affected your romantic/dating life at all? Why or why not?

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u/SoloButtaflii•

I am a dynamic person that enjoys different dynamics (see what I did there)? Hehe.. What I’m saying is, I may be focusing on my main mode, my main aesthetic, but that doesn't necessarily exclude other fantasies and types of play. There are things I would like to explore with a fellow, suitable adult. I’m all about bringing things out of suppression. Let go and discover with me, ya know?

Which is why the slow burn makes it worthwhile. Getting to know each other and building upon that. Does anyone else perceive it this way?

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u/SoloButtaflii•

Search for a domme when you're thinking clearly and (not) horn.

Go through the verification process

Verify your age

Tribute

Communicate your desires and needs. Comprehend the dommes desires and needs.

Be patient

Let it build naturally and be yourself

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u/LadySailorSiren•

Amazing news! I paid off another one of my student loans today. I was expecting to have it paid off by this time NEXT YEAR! Very blessed.

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u/Princess_Era•

Hey everyone! I’m fully age verified and looking to establish long term connections with subs as I feel comfort and trust is the best way to make any Findom/sub work well. I love being a brat and can’t wait to collect more peasants for my Kingdom 😈

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u/LynnTheRula•

Communication is so important to me. As a Domme I cannot curate the session of a subs dreams if they can't even describe to me what it would look like ideally.

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u/SoloButtaflii•

It is so important to have age verification on your page. Even if you don't use any fan sites, you can use them for age Verification along with other sites such as onlyfans, fansly, premium chat, etc. As a responsible person, you should also check for age verification.

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