r/GenderDifficultAllies

24 archived posts · Sep 2019 – Jul 2026

Gender Difficult Allies

This is a sub for men and anyone that does not fit the requirements to post in /r/genderdifficult but still wishes to add to the discussion.

Created Sep 14, 2019

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Rules:

All parties including men and trans women that do not meet the requirements for r/genderdifficult are welcome here!

We do not allow slurs. This also includes TiM and TiF as well as referring to others as "trans-identified." We feel this belittles the struggle strongly dysphoric users face. Saying someone "identifies as a man/woman" with that phrasing is allowed.

Body shaming is not allowed on this sub! This includes mocking post-surgical genitalia. Acknowledging that there are still differences between, for example, a natal woman's vulva and a neo-vulva is allowed as long as it is not disrespectful and relevant to a discussion (such as dating prefrences).

Blanchardianism isn't allowed. This includes the phrases "homosexual transsexual" and "HSTS". AGP men can still be criticized, and policies that allow them to use trans exemptions (e.g. self-ID) can also be criticized. This means, for example you can't say "female-attracted trans women are AGP by definition."

No misgendering other users; however, third party pronouns are fine.

Site wide rules also apply. Any posts encouraging violence against others will be deleted and result in the user being banned.

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