r/LetsGetLaid

5.6K archived posts · Feb 2014 – Aug 2025

Let's Get Laid

r/LetsGetLaid

Casual sex, hookup discussion and advice. A place to share with other people who are interested. For personal ads, please do not post on this subreddit and instead make your way to r/DirtyR4R

Created Feb 19, 2014

30KMembers (last snapshot)

5.6KArchived posts

This sub is for those of us who enjoy or would like to enjoy the wonders of casual sex and hookup culture. Let's talk strategy and share success stories. We welcome advice, discussion, stories, questions, anything having to do with getting laid. We're an inclusive and friendly sub, and this isn't the place for personal attacks or bigotry of any kind.

We created this subreddit because we were unhappy with the terminology and approach that dominates traditional "PUA culture". In this sub, we are kind, respectful, love people of every gender and sexuality, we like feminism, we are humanists, we are the "good ones". If you identify with that, then you are one of us. This community is designed from scratch to be welcoming to all; male, female or otherwise; straight, queer or otherwise; if you're interested in getting laid this is a happy and safe home for you.

"Hey everybody, we're all gonna get laid!"

The Rules

Do not hesitate to click "report" if you want mods to review a comment or submission.

No bigotry. Sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, biphobia, polyphobia, etc. etc. is all a bannable offense, don't do it.
Even though we're talking about hookup, please do not creep on people. This includes soliciting nudes, being crude to people, harassing, and sending unwanted PMs. If someone from this sub is pestering you, please report it to us and the admins.
No personal attacks, name calling, or derogatory language. If you get into a disagreement, please keep it cordial, we want to keep this place friendly and light.
No shaming. If someone's lifestyle is different than yours, you are expected to be tolerant and open-minded. Any slut or prude shaming will be dealt with, we don't want to see any words like "disgusting" bandied about.
Keep it on topic.
Don't troll. Duh.
If you post a story, make sure it includes some advice or discussion material. This is not a bragging platform.
No r4r type posts. While this subreddit is about getting laid, it's not a board for advertising one's self. Try r/r4r or r/dirtyr4r.
No photos for rating. If you want to be rated, go to r/amiugly.
No low-effort posts.
I'm serious about low-effort posts that are really r4r fodder. If there we see anything remotely like "I'm horny what do I do" we're getting rid of it.

Lastly, this isn't quite a rule, but please stay away from PUA language and terminology. Our vision is to build a healthy new sex-positive culture and terminology as an alternative to that one!

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