r/NoContactForTheWin

51 archived posts · Sep 2016 – Dec 2023

No Contact For The Win

A space for adults to discuss having decided to be No Contact with toxic people. The assumption is that the people posting here have made the move to No Contact with the toxic people, even if those toxic people are trying to break that boundary.

Created Sep 12, 2016 · restricted

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The goal is to give a space to tell stories of being No Contact, and to give support and advice to help people in that situation.

But given that we're dealing with some emotionally tough stuff, there's a pretty long list of rules to keep everyone supportive, calm, and thinking.

Here's a list of what will likely get you banned (temp or permanent):

No trolling. That includes "concern trolls" and martyr trolls. You troll; you get banned.
No using this space to break someone's No Contact. If you dox, or if you are the person that someone else is No Contact with, you'll be banned. Also, if you dox, we will report you to Reddit's Admins. Doxxing is against the TOS.
Don't bring drama from other subreddits here: we're not a battleground for someone's rage against another reddit user. That'll also get you banned.
If you disagree, be civil and respectful. Remember the human and remember that many posters here are dealing with toxic personalities. Being nasty to each other will lead to bans. We've already had to be no contact with toxic people, no one wants to add to the list. Don't go there.
If you feel you need to quit the sub, do it quietly so you can come back if the mood strikes you. If you decide to publicly air any grievances with the sub, you'll be banned. If you want to air grievances with how the sub is run, take it to mod mail.
The rules are here in order to foster reasonable discussion, support, and advice. Using the rules as ammunition against another poster does not further these goals. If you see someone breaking a rule, report it and move on. If someone tries to verbally assault someone in the open forum by citing the rules, that someone's going to get banned.
No Spam. No promoting your personal blogs (mention, yes, but not promoting). And no begging for stuff or money.
No brigading. Seriously, we're not going to be your personal army. Do that, and you'll be banned.

Damn, that's a lot of bannable stuff. But it basically comes down to one thing. Don't be a jerk. Be a jerk, be toxic, and you'll get banned. We went No Contact with the jerks in our lives, such people won't be welcome here.

Be nice, even when you're disagreeing with others, and you'll be more than welcome here. Be toxic, and you'll be banned. In the end, it's that simple.

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