r/OkCupid

258K archived posts · Nov 2009 – Sep 2026

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r/OkCupid

Archived posts from r/OkCupid, Nov 2009 to Sep 2026.

Created Nov 18, 2009

254KMembers (last snapshot)

258KArchived posts

Welcome to r/OkCupid — a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here.

► Rules

Do not post identifying information! Blur out the faces of anyone who isn't you. Censor any name that is not yours.

You can post your own profile, but you cannot post anyone else's without moderator's permission.
Slurs and hate speech directed toward LGBTQ, people of color, survivors of trauma/abuse, or any other undecorous content may be removed.
r/OkCupid is moderated for quality, which means submissions or comments that provide little to no value — whether it be education, discussion, or entertainment — may be removed at the moderators' discretion.

r/OkCupid Rules

► FAQ & Common Posts

► Critiques & Advice

Please read these rules for posting critiques before posting your own!
Rules 1 and 2 for Dating Success
A list of DOs and DON'Ts for profiles.
A list of DOs and DON'Ts for messages.
Submit screenshot links to your profile so you get maximum views, as not everyone has your particular dating app.

► Calendar

Most posts are posted at 1pm EST; Fashion Friday is posted at 2:30pm EST.

Post	Day
Story Time Sunday	Sunday
Ask Me Monday	Monday
Rant Wednesday	Wednesday
Critique-Any-Section	Thursday
General Discussion	Friday
Fashion Friday	Friday
Selfie Saturday	Saturday

► Chat

We also have a chat, just for us. You first have to register here, then click on this link and join #okchat. Be sure to use your Reddit username so other users can recognize you!

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