r/FapDeciders

1.3M archived posts · Oct 2011 – Sep 2026

FapDeciders

r/FapDeciders

Welcome to fapdeciders. This is a subreddit for people looking for other people to give them directions on how to fap.

Created Oct 20, 2011 · NSFW

264KMembers (last snapshot)

1.3MArchived posts

How it works

Make a post here on the subreddit. Post ought include the following information:

gender you identify as
sexual orientation
toys on hand
any physical limitations (i.e. can not be on knees for extended periods of time)
preferences/fantasies
what you don't like/wouldn't be into
time limit/availability (please be aware that if you only have an hour or so, you're not likely to see much attention to your post)

Posts now require post flair, denoting what you're looking for.

In your post title, please include an x4x designation (e.g., m4f, nb4a). We may start filtering out posts that do not include this in the near future.

For the most part, posters on this subreddit do not need to be verified. That said, there are now several ways that users can get verified:

A user may post (or pm the mods) a gonewild-style verification picture, and we will grant you the flair of your choice.
A person may message the mod team on another user's behalf telling us that someone is fun to play with (either giving or receiving commands), and we will give that person an appropriate flair after confirming that that uses wants it.
Last, if you make an extreme post that we think might be fake we reserve the right to ask you to verify. If you do not, we might remove your post/and or ban you... This primarily affects "destroy my life" and "deny me forever" posts.

After you post

Your post constitutes a promise that you will follow instructions to the letter (or find the closest possible substitute). Sessions should respect your limits, so please communicate them clearly both before and during.

Nitty-Gritty

This is NOT a version of GW. Some people may be willing to post pictures, some may not. Please no comments that simply say, "show us your tits." Take that shit elsewhere.
Respect all posters. No means no, unless in the context of your scene it might mean yes. In which case, there had better be a safe word in place that will actually mean "no."
Play safely and have a great fap!! :)

PLEASE PM THE MODS if there are specific issues or requests.

At this point the founders would like to point out that they came here to change this text, read it, and agreed so hard that they didn't just leave it as it was, they wrote this comment.

Fapdeciders origin story

A kinky couple 22(M), 21(F) got bored and created a post much like this. It went great, so by popular demand... it is now a subreddit!

It all started with this amazing post. Origin

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