r/interracial

2.7K archived posts · Jul 2010 – Jun 2025

Interracial: Love who you want

r/interracial

Discussion of the challenges and nuances of interracial relationships.

Created Oct 7, 2009

11KMembers (last snapshot)

2.7KArchived posts

Welcome!

This is a place to MATURELY discuss anything and everything that has to do with interracial dating, marriage, and everything in-between.

The rules:

This is not a place to post personals or seek hookups. But playful banter is encouraged and flirting is allowed ;)
Use common sense. Try to be kind. Be civil. No trolling. No race-baiting. No stereotyping. No shaming. Blunt, real talk is allowed. Pejorative terms are not.
You're welcome to post a screen cap (not a direct link!) to a dating profile/social media profile you want to discuss, but be sure to blur out any usernames or faces. They didn't ask to be put on Reddit.
This is a safe space for all races, genders, and sexual orientations. It is also a safe space for people in poly and/or open relationships. We live and let live.
Don't commodify/dehumanize others. Frank talk about sex and race is acceptable. Reducing others to racial stereotypes and their sex parts is not.

Don't post spam or self-promotional stuff without prior permission.

You're welcome whether you are currently in an interracial relationship, have been in an interracial relationship, are eyeing someone of a different race, or just have some general questions about interracial dating.

Need some advice?
Questions about cultural divides?
Not sure what to expect at the first family dinner?
Parents, family, friends, or others not so understanding?

Ask away!

Also feel free to talk about your own interracial relationship(s), marriage, or experiences.

Criticizing all interracial relationships is not tolerated. This is a discussion/support community so be nice, be open-minded, give your support, or go away.

This is NOT a porn or fetish subreddit. There are plenty of those out there. If you see any porn, please hit the report button; it will be removed immediately and the poster will be banned as well.

Racism and fetishizing of other people won't be tolerated here. Be respectful of others, and remember, everyone's a person, first, before they're a member of another race.

Sweeping generalizations about any race are a no-go. General tendencies might be one thing, but the attribution of characteristics to any given race is not.

And observe proper Reddiquette.

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