الحمد لله القريب المجيب

Many Muslims want to gain Jannah and are afraid of Jahannam, they want to follow the sunnah and they're careful not to fall in innovation but without feeling it, they are deeply influenced by modernity.

The Muslim who authored this post isn't actually confused or upset with anything, he is emotionally disturbed, because his intellect was formed on a number of emotions that he was made to feel whenever he hears certain terms. Terms such as "terrorist" aren't based on any objective idea for example, or the term has any serious identifying criteria. Rather it is a term meant to instigate emotions against a group of people that do any action that goes against some or many laws that were set by the very people who used to do similar actions less than 20 years ago. A terrorist is someone who'd warn people of non-Islamic values, but the one who propagates anti-Islamic values would be considered "Free speech" and "Promoter of peace and love" 

  
Identically, there is no such thing as a pedophile, the term is a very modern one that is enlisted among many other terms that have come in this era, like "terrorist" 

The pedophile is always just a man who desired a girl younger than a set age. The reason that age is determined is nothing other than to prohibit those girls from marriage, not to actually stop them from intercourse with men of an older age. Anyone who desires a girl that is under 18, sometimes 17 and even 16 is a "pedophile" and the people feel so much fear of such a person 

But they feel absolutely no fear towards someone who committed adultery with a woman that is older than 18 even if he has emotionally destructed her, even if he gets her pregnant and then leaves her to suffer on her own, they are considered "free" although this freedom led to so much damage, they wouldn't really mind such a thing, just because it aligns with their "modern" values.

Helping out "Modern idea of pedophilia"