How do you get past the feeling of lose on this game

In the morning I retried to do the city one mission, took only the necessary . Farmed till I got full material , put ton of fortification , then got rekt and lost my équipement even tho I had insurance on this losing my zen allowing me to fly . Since then I feel damn immobile but I said hey it’s fine I can comeback , took my 2nd build , made snow 4 during two hour to get money by Doing all map , then on the last defence my grapple said nah mate I ain’t working and ended up in the middle of scorpion unable to move thus losing 2 hour and my stuff cause I forgot insurance ….. how do you guys passs this mentally …. I love the game , I love seing the spectacle of my 6 ciws on the wave but damn the grind is tough