What's with Reddit and the "simps"?

💯💯💯So I'm brand new to reddit and I actually joined because someone I knew really urged me to sign up. In South Africa it's not so popular but well spoken of due to the hilarious debates that have been posted and shared. I couldn't help but notice that my first hours browsing through, mainly consisted of posts where men are arguing about when someone is being a simp and when someone is considered the acceptable level of "nice" before they become one? Honestly I've been having these arguments and wasted my breath thinking that you can convince people otherwise or to just drop it. I like the idea of a man treating me better, perhaps even better than I deserve and I would appreciate it, as I do now. Everyone has preferences and everyone has a group of people that they probably have a problem with I just don't see who's winning this I mean bottom line is and I'm focusing on the guys... I see so many comments saying "that ain't gonna get you pussy"
Like bottom line you all want the same thing. You just despise the different ways you achieve it. Its no ones fault I mean with everything so diverse what's right and wrong? Don't want to offend anyone but the trolls are free to try lol. 💯💯💯