Balanced players, unbalanced W-L

Hey, all, I know I’ve seen posts about people saying that either they or their partner was winning this game all the time, and it wasn’t fun anymore, wanting to figure out what might be an insight that would help the person who is losing more.

My partner and I are pretty balanced players of games over time, particularly after we’ve both grasped the mechanics, but this one doesn’t seem to be evening out yet. This one may just suit my play style too much, because I’m great at fast and aggressive, but I can hardly beat her at long, carefully built infrastructures.

But I love this game, and I want it to be fun for both of us. Is there anything that has been coming up as a typical issue the partner who is losing has been having? It’s not failure to exile. Any tips appreciated, even if it’s for just one of the factions. (We don’t have Clone Wars yet.)