Is being sexually attracted to Ougi considered gay and/or pedophilia?

Can be sexually attracted to Ougi be considered gay since she was presentes as a male in "Hanamonogatari" and told Suruga Kanbaru that they have always been a boy and is presented as "Gender-Fluid" according to Monogatari wiki on FANDOM?

And also pedophilia since she is 6-months, but she have appearence of a 15-year-old?