Sex and being too hot

So, this year I kinda decided to be more adventurists and step out into my hoe phase. I’m currently separated from my husband and I’m not sure if we’re going to reconcile later or not. The issues that I keep having with men is that they A) want to always be in a relationship with me. (I do not at all, I just want to ef around with no emotions attached. I want to get mine and he gets his, no kissing, cuddling etc.) or B) once it’s time to do the deed he cums so quickly and their excuses are always you’re just too attractive. Does anyone else deal with this shit? I’m sexually frustrated.

I’ve had men get upset with me when I tell them that I do not want a relationship. They get upset with me when I’m not affectionate. I’m always upfront and transparent about what I want in the beginning and they get mad when they can’t change me. If I could just find one guy who has longevity, stamina and no expectations from me relationship wise that would be great, but it seems like these men now days want to be in a relationship with you if you have that certain “look”.

My male cousin explained to me that most men can go much longer in bed if he’s not that attractive to you. This sucks so bad. 🥺

I recently had a guy get upset with me because I didn’t want to kiss him. I told him that kissing to me is very intimate and we’re not in a relationship so why would we kiss? Then he said he needs affection and then I reminded him of what I said when we first met. Ughhhh

Sexually frustrated.