The story on how my 6’1 friend is on my birthday trip while I’m rotting at my grandmas.
This is gonna be long. About 2 weeks ago, my ex friend group, which consisted of me, my friend "cow," and my friend "pig," I've known cow since kindergarten, and I met pig at the beginning of freshman year. We're sophomores now. I'm 5'2, cow is 6'1, and pig is around 5'10. Cow and pig recently got girlfriends; let's call them egg and hog. They've been constantly hanging out with us since they got together with them. I'm the only single person in the group. So the problem started when egg and hog tried to set me up with their friend, who is a trans girl. Let's call her wig. I don't have any problems with trans people, but I'm not interested in dating one, so I rejected her by telling her I wasn't interested. Wig told them I rejected her, and hog and egg got mad and called me transphobic and started antagonizing me. I guess pig and cow wanted to impress their girlfriends, so they jumped on the bandwagon and started making fun of me. I wasn't surprised when pig started saying shit about me because ever since me and cow became friends with him, from time to time, cow and him would make snarky remarks about me but they never said anything about my height. It took me by surprise when cow said that I should be happy that anyone is even interested in me because I'm short and no girl will ever like me. Ngl that shit hurt because he knew that my height is my biggest insecurity . They all started laughing and agreeing with him. I then said some things about his family situation that I wasn't proud of. I avoided them until the end of the day, until cow tried to apologize to me. I told him to go shove his apology up his ass, and when I got home, I blocked him on everything. He went crying to his mom and told her a made up story that painted me out to be the villain. He completely left out the part of him shit talking me. His mom called my mom and told her his made up story. My mom got mad and confronted me about "bullying" him and told me to apologize and unblock him immediately. I told her what really happened, and she still proceeded to say that I'm in the wrong and that I needed to apologize to him and unblock him on everything. I told her no and that I wasn't going to be friends with someone who shit talks and disrespects me. She got mad and told me that I was no longer going on our ski trip. The ski trip that I've been looking forward to for 8 months now. The ski trip that was supposed to be my 16th birthday/christmas present. Cow was already supposed to go on that ski trip with me, so they ended up giving my spot to one of my cousins. I always suspected that my parents prefer cow over me, but damn, he's really out there enjoying MY birthday trip with MY family while I'm sitting at my grandmas house watching some boring game show while writing this, not to mention I had to wait 5 days to even post on this sub. I'm just shocked, surprised, pissed, and hurt at this whole situation. I've probably only slept like 3 hours in the past few days. I just know that if I were tall, I would be respected, I'd have a girlfriend, and my parents wouldn't treat me like shit. Seriously thinking about ending it. Sorry for this rant being so long. I hope you guys at least have a good christmas.
Posted Dec 23, 2023, 5:10 PM UTC