Taking the L

Ever hear the change in someone’s voice and it shocks your system? Who for gods sake was that on the other end of that phone?? Where’s the woman that used to warm up my soul? And then realize that her cold calmness is the sequel to your selfishness? as hard I want to try, in that moment today when she calmly said I handed her to someone new. I realized that the best way to show her how much I care is for me to take the L and let her be. Lessons learned from an aging adulter.