I'm deciding to stay a virgin for good, any advice on how to divert energy into other stuff?

So because I've had terrible experiences with men the past few weeks, so I've decided to no longer pursue anything with men forever. I've even cut off any male friends I have that seemed to be somewhat interested in me, women only friends now and I block any guy in my dms who try to flirt with me. So far I've blocked 15 people today.

Anyway, I was wondering if you guys have found fun things to do that could help me ignore unwanted attention? I was thinking of joining some clubs at my campus. I play video games but only Minecraft and Sims. I'm trying to get into this "self-discovery/self-love" phase that my friend told me about. She said that everyone's journeys is different so I really don't know where to start. Any help is welcomed :)

Posted Mar 29, 2023, 11:50 PM UTC

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Exact-Mountain2595•

Play lots of video games and watch tv series. It's pretty easy to stay a virgin forever if thats your goal.

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DudeWithaTwist•

I'm a big advocate for hobbies, and that's easy to start. If anything has mildly interested you, give it a shot. When I was a teenager I was curious how people could "photoshop" images. I downloaded some image editing software and started learning. Eventually that spiraled into 3D stuff, and then I combined my programming career with my 3D hobby. I have plenty of stuff to keep me busy now. Love it.

Its a very slow process to build your hobbies, but so worth it.

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AnswerAccomplished40OP•

Any free apps?

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DudeWithaTwist•

You mean photo editors? Yea I used GIMP. Then I found a way to pirate Photoshop haha. That made it more fun actually. Then I used Source Filmmaker for 3D, and then another free 3D modeler called Blender.

But that's just my interests. You should find something that calls to you.

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HikiNoKami•

Only way I know is distraction.

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Mayko_Lee•

As a 32 y o virgin for life I focus on video games and masturbation

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