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So, I had coffee with a guy friend earlier today and it was because he invited me out to go over notes for a project we have due. It was a nice time and the first time I was able to have a good time with a guy and feel comfortable. Then things sort of got weird and I totally take responsibility for how it went out. So the coffee shop is at our campus, so students are allowed to just hangout and relax for a while if need be. Due to this, we got a table that was kind of far from the entrance and tucked into the corner. He asked if we could sit next to each other rather than across be cause we were playing the game where you placed flashcards faced down and he said it'd be too difficult to read

So, I have a friend in our friend/study group that's a guy and he's the only guy in a group of 11 people (so 1 guy and 10 girls). Prior to spring break, I barely knew much about him but during spring break we all spent a few nights at a friend's house and when we weren't studying, we just hung out like friends. We watched movies, played stupid games, and grew closer to each other. On our last day we played this game where we have to find flash cards around the house that corresponds to the set of cards we were given at the start of the game. We were paired off together and I ended up being with my friend and the one guy due to uneven teams. Anyway, during the game I got to know him better an

So, I've never...touched myself down there because I've always wanted to save it for my future partner, but since I've only met really bad men I don't think that will happen. I'd really like to...explore that side because I'm always made fun of by guys when I tell them I've never masturbated before. I've only orgasmed once in the shower a while ago but it was involuntary. I've never watched porn either and I'm kind of scared to do it.

Something I've noticed since I've been here is that a lot of women get downvoted. I know it's not everyone women and that it's not just women and a lot of people feel like they're unfairly treated. However, a girl can agree with what everyone say or just have a positive reply and it randomly gets downvoted. Me and a handful of girls from this subreddit are in a group chat and we sometimes try to adjust our posts before posting them on the subreddits that we're on so that we don't come off a certain way. I've had guys dm me either worried or trying to be uplifting but it doesn't make sense when it seems like no matter what I say I'll just be downvoted.

So because I've had terrible experiences with men the past few weeks, so I've decided to no longer pursue anything with men forever. I've even cut off any male friends I have that seemed to be somewhat interested in me, women only friends now and I block any guy in my dms who try to flirt with me. So far I've blocked 15 people today.

Anyway, I was wondering if you guys have found fun things to do that could help me ignore unwanted attention? I was thinking of joining some clubs at my campus. I play video games but only Minecraft and Sims. I'm trying to get into this "self-discovery/self-love" phase that my friend told me about. She said that everyone's journeys is different so I really don

So, after thinking about it for a few days, I have just had bad luck with finally losing my virginity. Whenever it's almost time to do it, my body gets all sweaty and I freeze up. So far there has been two attempts with this guy and after we spent the whole day today texting with each other I decided to not try again. He's just too nice and based on a lot of responses on here apparently I'm using him when I am not trying to. I asked him if he was only doing these things (buying me food, taking care of me, sending me sweet texts) so that I could have sex with him and it was like a whole tone shift. He told me that was the whole point and that he was going to just move onto another girl if I w

The guy friend I decided not to have sex with last week gave me another chance after I asked him to. It was supposed to be tomorrow but he asked if we could do it today and I said yes. We didn't do much like last time, but I asked if he could take me out to dinner again because I was really wanting to try these sliders at the restaurant across town. I was prepared to spend my own money, but once again he offered to pay for my food and then he asked if I wanted to see a movie and he bought me this giant bucket of popcorn. When the movie finished I was feeling tired and fell asleep in the car, when I woke up we were at his house and we went in. I freshened up and washed my areas, but when it w

I just turned 19 back in December and I've seen so many guys talk about an expiration date. I've never even had sex before but now I have an expiration date?!

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So, last week I was going to lose my virginity to the most amazing guy I've ever met in my life. After class we went on a nature walk and he took me to my favorite lake area. After a couple hours he took me out to eat and let me order whatever I wanted, I tried to not get too much but I couldn't help myself (He even let me get desert). After dinner we took a walk near his house and watched the sunset while laying on a blanket, he lives near a park with this massive hill and it was so beautiful.

Then we went to his house and I started feeling uncomfortable. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to be rude, but he kissed me on my lips and I kissed him back. He picked me up, which was i

(We're both virgins btw) Idk if you guys remember but I made a post about a guy who I thought was being rude to me. It turns out the reason he didn't answer my texts was because his phone was dead. We talked on the phone almost all day and we talked about our dreams and goals. He really wants to be with me! He then told me that it would be his honor if he could be the one to break me in and make me not a virgin and I'll admit at first I was totally scared. Then he sang me a song from Disney and a few days ago he took me on a date. We talked about our family and took time to talk about what we liked about each other. He asked me to rate him on his looks and I gave him a 4/10 and he gave me 8/

Hi, my name is Kate and I've recently kind of just had really horrible experiences with guys near my age. I've always gravitated towards older men and love to learn from them. Recently I've captured the eye of a man and I'm nervous. I don't have much experience with men outside of my father and I'm a virgin. Throughout my time on reddit I've kind of gotten a good idea of what to expect from guys more or less, but it's been through the eyes of guys who are no older than 26. I don't really know what questions I should be asking or what I should be looking out for. I come from a pretty sheltered life and have only recently been given a lot of freedom the past half year with College. Any tips on

A few nights I wrote about the previous night where my friends and I went to a night club to hangout. I shared that I had a bad encounter with a guy that left my head bruised and me totally scared of going out. Yesterday morning, Friday, I headed to my class on campus (I only have 2 in person classes on Friday and Monday while the rest are online) and I had planned on finally talking to my friends about the night before class since we usually gather about 15 minutes before. Outside in the Quad where I usually take a shortcut I thought I saw a familiar face in a group of people sitting and eating breakfast. I stared for too long and of course he noticed and OFCOURSE it was thge guy that I met

I have friends I've been chatting with for the past couple of months, we all share a class together and are going for Nursing. It's 5 girls (including me) and one guy and we've decided to go over one of the other's house during Spring Break to have a study session overnight. Last night we thought we'd have a cute ice breaker day to help adjust everyone with each other before the big sleepover and the guy suggested we all go to a club. I've never been to a club but all the other girls thought it'd be cool so I said sure. After an hour at the club I was able to loosen up and ended up dancing with all my friends, they were drinking (I was not), due to the heels I was wearing I had to take a bre