I'm becoming scared of my boyfriend. I need tips how to navigate until I can get free safely.

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Long story short, EX stahm had to leave narcissist husband. Ended up almost homeless. Got taken in by a college educated man who is almost three figures. He took me in early, pampered me, gifts abundances of anything I wanted. Mind you he is 24m, I'm 30 female.

It's been 3 months and he's pressuring me into signing a lease with him on a place I hate!!

And to top it off, he's shown MAJOR red flags:

  1. Homeschooled in a abusive Catholic household.

2)he has weird shit with his brother and brother's girlfriend. I think they all sleep together. Or he has something going on with her feet.

3)he CLINGS to me all night.

4)he has tested to see if I have a flinch response a cpl times.

  1. said I love You after two weeks of knowing each other.

6)insults my intelligence whenever I try to confirm details with him, or become lost. I don't feel safe with that. I want to go elsewhere for guidance now.

  1. throws gifts at me when I start to lose interest.

  2. The staff at the place he's trying to get me to sign with him told me that he is scaring THEM because my application was having delays and he calls them and acts aggressively.

  3. Possessive

That's not all either.

He knows I'm getting Bucky. He already knows something is up because he has started throwing money at me again. Im trying to back out and distract him tactfully until I can get somewhere safely. I told the staff about my regrets and they all said they will lie for me and cancel just mine. I'm very very grateful.

Any tips before I make the leap?

Posted Aug 27, 2023, 1:54 AM UTC

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