Spookyredd

u/Spookyredd


r/AskALawyer•

Some Mondays the kitchen sink in the break room and sponge smell like a piss cake. Like a urinal.

There are usually beer cans in the bins as well.

He comes in after hours, the drying rack is right next to the sink and is where all the cups are kept.

I used some of the coffee cups but stopped once I smelled piss.

I think that I may have drank from one of these cups that might have been contaminated!

What are my rights in this situation?

Edit: And yes I stopped using ANYTHING in the kitchen after I noticed the snell.

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r/Manipulation•

Ok, been pretty casual for a year, on and off. Once to twice a week, (Monday and Thursday) never more than 3 nights. He always picks me up, due to conflicting work schedules I can only stay the night only on Thurs nights.

Now, he always presented himself as a F boi. (Sexually objectifies and lusts over women in front of me, follows a shit ton of insta models who use filters, or collgan injected lips etc) So I never expected him be more than a casual, no strings, fun every week to ease the work week and blow stress. It's been going good for about a year. No problems really.

I've told him twice this is no strings fun. Not serious. We don't text really, or talk to each other during the we

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r/TrueOffMyChest•

I have been talking to a beautiful young Bulgarian who is the spitting image of Spike from Cowboy Bebop. He found my TikTok videos and is offering to fly me out to Italy on his wallet. We have been talking everyday and have live chatted and exchanged Instagram pics so I know he's legit.  He's telling me he can't sleep, he's obsessed etc which its par to the course but this would be my first time going to Europe which was on my bucket list anyway.

And I'm entertaining the idea of renewing my passport.

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Well, I'm pretty certain. Like 98% sure. I picked up on it the first time we suana together.

I have been missing pairs of socks when I've always been really good with keeping my socks in pairs.

I've seen him fixate on feet before.

Plus a bunch of other clues.

I love feet fetishes too and want to explore it with him but I don't know how to bring it up. He seems very secretive about it. I have made sure my feet are as clean and soft as possible, even sleeping wearing gel socks.

I've also never been with anyone with a foot fetish.  How do I get him to explore it with me?

I don't want to scare him from it.

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r/u_Spookyredd•

Long story short, EX stahm had to leave narcissist husband. Ended up almost homeless. Got taken in by a college educated man who is almost three figures. He took me in early, pampered me, gifts abundances of anything I wanted. Mind you he is 24m, I'm 30 female.

It's been 3 months and he's pressuring me into signing a lease with him on a place I hate!!

And to top it off, he's shown MAJOR red flags:

  1. Homeschooled in a abusive Catholic household.

2)he has weird shit with his brother and brother's girlfriend. I think they all sleep together. Or he has something going on with her feet.

3)he CLINGS to me all night.

4)he has tested to see if I have a flinch response a cpl times.

  1. sai
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r/dating_advice•

Newly Divorced stay at home mom after 20 years. I'm enjoying my freedom and my number one goal is to own multiple properties so I can retire early and have something to pass onto my children other than a corpse. Especially since I never went to college.

I have been working my ass off and saving.

I have had a few short term younger lovers, I've tried to not allow any attachments. I have always been the first to end things.

I've allowed only one guy exclusivity since my ex husband.

I've allowed it to continue for about 3 months now.

Mostly because he is going to help me reach my goals. Cut my rent so I can save even more money! We actually do have the same goals and hobbies. So that

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r/dating_advice•

Ok, so, I got out of a 20 yr traditional m2f marriage .

I'm 40f. I got snatched up with my second boyfriend when I was 20. He was 35. Stayed 100 % loyal to him even though....😒. Anyways, I'm very new to the dating scene.

I'm only looking for casual, no way I'm getting married again! I have become very independent.

So, I had a guy, 24, tell me nonchalantly but with a small hint of insistence that I hear this story, about a interaction that happened where a girl at a coffee shop flirted with him. And a cpl more similar stories.

And from what I have read in the past, younger men play games?

Also, is it normal for men to say I love you, joke about being a wifey, say extremely amorous th

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r/ADHD•

I have severe ADHD. Had it since I was a kid. I just want to bitch about how much the dopamine chase SUCKS right now.

Almost a year ago,  I left an emotionally neglectful marriage of 20 years.

Then came along Taylor. Taylor did nothing but exhude dopamine. He was the mainline for dopamine.

We fell in love fast and hard. From day one, everyday for 6 months my mornings started with  "Good Morning!!" And ended with Good night texts, along with multiple texts throughout the day asking how my day was going and constantly sent me positive affirmations. Every picture I sent him he would respond with how beautiful I am and how lucky he was. EVERY single day, 24/7.

He would come over on all of

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