Mom rant

How are those with husbands handling the distrubution of household work? We do divide the work but I am the one who has to come up with the division of work and then make a to do list. I even had to tell him that it was a good opportunity to take a shower before our LO woke up from his nap.

He will eagerly do ANYTHING I ask. But often I have to ask again and again. We both have ADHD, so I understand that it isn’t easy and he will forget things. So I tell him to write it out or use his phone.

I know he has a lot to learn because my MIL doesn’t believe in giving children chores because it feels like taking away their childhood but I am so tired.

But were dropping so many balls.