I (40f)want to explore foot fetishes with my boyfriend (24m), I am certain he has a foot fetish too but I don't know how to approach him with it?

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Well, I'm pretty certain. Like 98% sure. I picked up on it the first time we suana together.

I have been missing pairs of socks when I've always been really good with keeping my socks in pairs.

I've seen him fixate on feet before.

Plus a bunch of other clues.

I love feet fetishes too and want to explore it with him but I don't know how to bring it up. He seems very secretive about it. I have made sure my feet are as clean and soft as possible, even sleeping wearing gel socks.

I've also never been with anyone with a foot fetish.  How do I get him to explore it with me?

I don't want to scare him from it.

Posted Sep 7, 2023, 4:38 PM UTC

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SunnyGh0st•

The real issue, why are you with a 24 year old? And yes, I find the age gape an issue no matter the genders.

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SpookyreddOP•

He's an engineer with 3 vehicles and a motorcycle, who pursued me heavily. Oh, he also has a beard. You ask him. Lol

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Ifiwerenyourshoes•

I would have pursued heavily also.

Lotion or oil and ensure you have had a pedicure. Rough feet are not fun.

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Find a couple's sex quiz that asks about it. See if there's a match.

Try to flirt and trigger him. Ask for foot rubs. Give lots of praise and compliments about how good it feels. Ask for positions during sex where your feet are near him.

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amglasgow•

"Confess" to him about having a fetish about having your feet worshipped. Ask him to indulge you. He may admit to having similar interests, or may play that he's doing it to please you but finds it unexpectedly pleasant.

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SpookyreddOP•

I figured it out. Its not adult women's feet he likes. It's kids feet that turns him on. FUCK!

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