Husband has had me believing it’s normal to finish in my face every time

I (36F) was pretty inexperienced before meeting my husband (43M). From early on in our relationship, he finishes in my face every time we are intimate. I thought this was normal but my friend was shocked. Is this really that abnormal or freaky? Does it mean he doesn’t respect me?

I’m asking because we started dating when I was underage and my friend accused him of grooming me. He has started being physically abusive and now I’m realizing he was also emotionally abusive (insults, gaslighting) and sexually abusive (coercing, forcing). I’m wondering if this is another sign.