IT IS OKAY TO BE HURT

Breakups are really hard because all you wanted to do was love somebody and they said no, and now you’re alone and that’s hard… but being single is okay.

If you’re feeling disappointed in yourself for personal failures then being alone makes things easier. You deserve to be proud of yourself, you don’t deserve to be disgusted with yourself and heartbroken. Take this time before your next relationship to become proud of yourself again, get in shape, give yourself model good looks, make a lot of money, grind a skill you’ve always wanted to have.

You’re alone now but this is your chance to become a new version of yourself. The same you but better, and most importantly, happier. I love you fellow redditors and heartachers. You’re stronger than you think you are <3