I finally got a consult for my procedure!

I finally found a doctor who both takes my insurance and has openings for new patients! I don't know why, but I don't need a primary care referral to see my regular OBGYN, yet I did need one for this doctor. When I called my primary care's office, I told the receptionist this referral would be for a consult for sterilization surgery, she said, "yeesh...okay", in a very judgmental voice. Still a few days later, the gynecologist's office called back that I had my referral and could make my appointment. My consult is March 5.

I just don't have anyone in my real life to get excited about this with me. I currently live with my mom to save money, and she doesn't think it's necessary, because I could just use birth control. She doesn't get it. My sisters both have kids, they got baby showers and got the celebrations surrounding having children. I am trying to think of how to celebrate my freedom to not have kids. I feel like it's worthy of celebrating.

Getting this appointment so far is a huge weight off my chest.