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floofabout

Unsure what now

Need Hugs!

I’m 40yo in August, unexplained infertility for my husband and I. Two failed untested FETs last year. Third one in December 2024 and we transferred a mosaic (a gamble, I know). Just had a d&c this week after heart stopped around 8 weeks but found out at 10wks.

I feel like seeing a pregnancy happen finally gave me the strength to go on. The thing I’m unsure of is we have done 3 rounds and after PGT testing, ended up with 4 mosaic embryos, 4 others that can’t be used.

The doctor says it’s my age, so do you just give up? Or keep flogging yourself with rounds in the hope you might get a euploid? It’s so hard to tell. I’d love to hear from anyone 39+ that had similar experience or if it was/wasn’t worth pushing on, I’m very torn

Posted Feb 22, 2025, 7:40 AM UTC

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