Time to Change the Direction of This Sub

This sub is going to undergo a complete restructuring regarding how posts are handled and what we want this community to stand for.

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For a long time, most discussions here have revolved around women, dating frustrations, and relationship issues. While those conversations are not completely invalid, they have ended up dominating the space to the point that the sub has developed a reputation for being negative and, in some cases, even being labeled as an “incel” space. That is not what we want this community to represent.

This subreddit should be about brotherhood. It should be a place where men support each other in practical ways and help each other improve their lives. Instead of centering discussions around women, we want to shift the focus toward our own growth, struggles, and achievements.

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There are many ways we can help each other here:

1. If someone is looking for a job, members who work in companies can help with referrals or guidance.
2. If someone is struggling with studies, career choices, or skill development, others can share their experiences and advice.
3. If someone is going through a difficult phase in life, this community should be a place where he can talk openly and receive support rather than judgment.
4. This can also be a space where we help each other grow professionally and creatively.
5. If you are a creator, whether you make videos, write, build products, run a startup, or create art, you should feel comfortable sharing your work here. Other members can support you, give feedback, and help amplify your work. Growth becomes easier when people around you genuinely want to see you succeed.

Think of this community as a long-term brotherhood network. Not just a place to complain about relationships, but a place where we become wingmen for each other in life.

That means helping each other with careers, health, skills, personal development, and navigating challenges. A strong community is built when members actively contribute to each other's progress.

To help shift the culture of the sub in this direction, we are introducing a few posting rules.

• META posts will be allowed only on Fridays. Any META posts made on other days will be removed.
• Women-centric discussions, including memes related to women or dating, will be allowed only on Saturdays. Posts of this type made on other days will be removed.

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The goal of these rules is not to completely ban those discussions, but to prevent them from dominating the entire subreddit. The majority of posts should focus on brotherhood, self-improvement, support, opportunities, and growth.

Let’s work together to build a community where members actually help each other move forward in life.