How to pleasure someone who prefers to give pleasure

I (23 trans man) have been going out with this guy (24 male) for a few months now, it's going great and I really like him. It took us a while to have sex for the first time and it's the one thing that hasn't clicked for us yet. None of us has had many experiences before and none that were actually satisfying either. We had a couple of deep talks about it and we're both willing to try out different things, bringing in toys and whatever, but we're still a bit stuck.

He says he finds it more pleasurable to give pleasure. He's willing to try, but doesn't really care for penetration (giving or receiving), receiving a blow job or hand job. I feel kinda lost on how I can be there for him. He says he's more into the build up, the provocative play, the expectation than the physical itself. He likes to give pleasure, and giving blow jobs it's what he thinks he likes most (witch is a problem, giving that I'm a trans man). I've had a couple of experiences with receiving oral sex and wasn't really into it (one person didn't hit the spot, the other one was actually pleasurable, but made me feel a bit dysphoric), but I'm willing to try it again, maybe it hits different coming from someone who I trust and feel in love with.

Have you been with someone similar? Any thoughts on what we could try?