I (23 trans man) have been going out with this guy (24 male) for a few months now, it's going great and I really like him. It took us a while to have sex for the first time and it's the one thing that hasn't clicked for us yet. None of us has had many experiences before and none that were actually satisfying either. We had a couple of deep talks about it and we're both willing to try out different things, bringing in toys and whatever, but we're still a bit stuck.
He says he finds it more pleasurable to give pleasure. He's willing to try, but doesn't really care for penetration (giving or receiving), receiving a blow job or hand job. I feel kinda lost on how I can be there for him. He says



