anonymous_normal_guy

u/anonymous_normal_guy


r/sex•

I (23 trans man) have been going out with this guy (24 male) for a few months now, it's going great and I really like him. It took us a while to have sex for the first time and it's the one thing that hasn't clicked for us yet. None of us has had many experiences before and none that were actually satisfying either. We had a couple of deep talks about it and we're both willing to try out different things, bringing in toys and whatever, but we're still a bit stuck.

He says he finds it more pleasurable to give pleasure. He's willing to try, but doesn't really care for penetration (giving or receiving), receiving a blow job or hand job. I feel kinda lost on how I can be there for him. He says

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r/dating_advice•

I know there's no right answer and it really depends on the relationship. But I'm kinda torn.

I (23M) have been going out with someone (23M) I met in college, our first date was 2 months ago. We usually go out once a week and sometimes run into eachother at college. Things have been going well, we get along, I've slept over at his place once, and we've been increasingly more intimate.

He lives alone, moved into my city for college, while I live with my family. It's great that we have somewhere to hang out and I've talked to him about it, something like "I'd love to invite you over, but since I live with family it kinda means something else to do that" and he agreed. But I feel kinda bad t

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r/ftm•

Long story short, I'll probably top for the first time in the near future and I would like any advice I could get.

Now, if you feel like reading: I (22ftm) have been going out with this guy (23m) for like a month now. Our dates have been becoming more intimate, but nothing sexual has happened yet.

On our last date, we talked about it, he said he hasn't really had any satisfying experiences before, so he doesn't really have any preferences yet. And I've always been a bottom, it's not something that brings me dysphoria (only had vaginal sex, but have experimented with anal on my own and enjoyed it). But I've always been curious about topping.

The thing is, I don't have much experience over

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r/dating_advice•

Long story short if you don't feel like reading much: I met this guy about 3 weeks ago, we went on 4 dates and everything in person is amazing. But in between dates we text and he's a terrible texter. I got hours without a response and he often seems to simply not read something. He has a pretty busy schedule and has mentioned he doesn't really like texting. But I'm really liking him and I would like a bit more in this aspect. I know it's something that should be discussed with him, but I feel like it's too soon to make some sort of "demand".

Now, if you feel like reading:

I (22m) met this guy (23m) in college 3 weeks ago (yes, very recently). It was the closest I've ever been to "love at

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r/TheLastKingdom•

I would absolutely recomend the books to anyone that enjoyed the show. The story is very different, not gonna lie, and I always prefer the books, but they didn't make me enjoy the series any less.

From now there will be spoilers, so beware. I'll agree with what people usually say, Finan's backstory and Uhtred's relationship with his children (especially his youngest, that was almost erased from the series) were some of the best plots. Even though I love the main squad in the show, the books simply make more sense. People come and go, people die and there are more important characters. I would've loved to see Berg, Ieremias and more o Steapa, for example. Maybe for budget reasons they had to

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r/TheLastKingdom•

An interesting book, to say the least.

Uhtred is a great actor, he often takes advantage of his age to appear weak and unimportant, it's pretty smart, not gonna lie.

He spent half the book ignoring the advice from his closest people and the other half regretting doing that. I actually enjoy when things don't go as planned, it adds realism and drama to the story. One of my favorite things from this book was his interactions with Finan. Their 40 years old relationship is amazing, they understand eachother without talking and many times they just know what the other is thinking or feeling. Finan simply knows how to deal with Uhtred, he made him keep going at his lowest.

" "Tell them we're go

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r/TheLastKingdom•

I was not expecting Ieremias to become one of my favorite characters lol. He brought just the right amount of chaos to the story and I'm here for it. Like always, Cornwell's battle passages are very fun to read, and the confusion around Uhtred when he got hurt was spot on. Something like:

"The next thing I remember is the intense pain when Vidarr removed my damaged helmet.

"My God, be careful!" Finan yelled at him as blood dripped from my scalp. Then he threw water on my head. "Lord? Lord?"

I must have mumbled something, because I remember Vidarr's surprised words: "He's alive!"

"It takes more than a damn rock to kill him," Finan said. "Put a bandage on his head. You, girl! Come here!"

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r/TheLastKingdom•

Aethelhelm's exposure was so satisfying. It was actually a great plan. A part of me wished Uhtred had ended it all then and there, throwing Aethelhelm under the bus in front of everyone. But I understand that it was smarter to use him at the time.

Berg and the pig tatoos. Poor guy, got screwed up by an awful tattoo artist, but god, that was funny. All that Frisia rumor was a great plot.

""But, lord, my cheeks!" Berg asked, worried. "I wear your symbol on my face, lord!"

"I don't think it matters," I said, not wanting to provoke him by saying the ink marks looked more like drunken pigs than wild wolves. "We'll take that risk."

"If you think so, lord..." he said, still worried.

"Let your

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