M | 28 | Single | Muslim | Chittagong | Software Developer

Age, Gender and Height: 28, Male, 5'10"

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Preferably 28 or below.

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Chittagong. Yes, I'm open to relocating for the right person. Since I really enjoy my current job, I'd prefer to find a similar job before moving.

Nationality: Bangladeshi

Marital Status: Single

Ideal marriage timeline: Anytime. I'm ready to get married whenever we both feel we're compatible.

About me: I'm a CSE graduate from a private university in Bangladesh and have been working as a software developer for over 5 years. Programming has been my passion for years, and I enjoy building things, learning new technologies, and creating something new almost every day. I value honesty, mutual respect, and open communication. I prefer a simple, peaceful life and believe a strong relationship is built on trust, understanding, and shared values.

I don't dream of a luxurious lifestyle. I dream of having a peaceful home where we support each other, solve problems together, travel whenever we can, and build a happy life as husband and wife. I believe success is something we build together over time.

More about me: https://www.reddit.com/r/Chittagong/comments/1txs085/anyone_else_feel_comfortable_everywhere_except_in/

Must Read (important): https://www.reddit.com/r/Chittagong/comments/1unu23x/anyone_else_worried_that_their_family_history/

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Muslim, mature, understanding, educated, and someone who appreciates a simple lifestyle.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Muslim. I try to practice my faith sincerely and live an honest, respectful life while continuing to improve myself. I'm not perfect, but I always try to become a better Muslim. I hope marriage helps both of us become better Muslims and build a home based on love, respect, and Islamic values.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: Preferably a university graduate. However, character, compatibility, and shared values matter much more to me than educational qualifications. If you're from a CSE background, that's a plus. If you're from another subject but enjoy technology, love computers, or like learning about tech, that's also something I'd really appreciate.

Current Job Status: Software Developer

Do you want kids?: Yes.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Coding, traveling, and watching movies.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: I'm naturally introverted, but I enjoy meaningful conversations with the right people. I don't usually talk much at first, but once I feel comfortable, I can keep a conversation going as long as needed. I enjoy solving real-life problems by building software and using my programming skills to create useful things. I also love exploring new places and appreciating the simple moments in life. I usually show my care through my actions more than my words.

What are you looking for in a woman?:

  1. A Muslim woman who is kind, mature, understanding, and values a simple, peaceful life. Someone who believes in mutual respect, honest communication, and growing together through every stage of life.
  2. I'd prefer someone whose height looks good beside mine since I'm 5'10", but it's not a big issue. I appreciate someone who takes care of her health, lives a healthy lifestyle, takes care of her skin, and has a good sense of dressing. I like simplicity, so I'm not looking for someone who loves a flashy or luxurious lifestyle.
  3. I'm supportive of my wife's education and career. I believe these are things we should discuss together and decide based on what's best for our family.
  4. If you've read the Reddit posts linked above, you'll know that I don't have much to rely on besides my family and the career I've built through my own hard work. I'm looking for someone who accepts that and wants to build our future together from where we are today. I want us to build our home, our life, and our future together. I don't expect someone to come into my life with everything already figured out. I simply want a partner who believes we can achieve those things together with patience, hard work, and trust.
  5. I also hope to find someone who, like me, has chosen to stay away from unnecessary relationships before marriage and wants to start this journey with sincerity, commitment, and mutual respect.
  6. Family means a lot to me. I hope to build a home where both of us feel safe, respected, and supported, and where our future children can grow up in a loving and peaceful environment.

Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM only. If we both feel we're compatible, we can continue on another platform that we're both comfortable with.

Posted Jul 11, 2026, 2:29 PM UTC

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