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Gay Bottoms are SHALLOW

 

I've always seen TOPs get a bad rep in the community, but why do we glide over the most toxic amongst us? THE BOTTOMS..

Let's start with how they objectify tops as if we're some item on a shelf for them to pick, chose and refuse or re-use. From their infamous introduction….."Hung?". Thankfully I am, so I get to happily share pics and videos and simply reject after for even asking "How are you"... What happened to Hello, How are you ? My name is .. 

Many will say, this is only their behavior on hookup apps, haha same behavior on dating apps or on person after a few words are exchanged.

Can bottoms love another guy that's not hung ? 

My best friend is 10x the sweetheart I am, but he's not hung and bottoms are so mean to him on apps or he's constantly ghosted after planned dates and getting intimate after a few days or weeks. These are the same people who are looking for "love" or "genuine connections".

Let's not start with how mean they are to other bottoms or masculine / muscular gay bottoms, trying to shame or convert them to top them.

Aren't we doomed if majority of our bottoms are like this ? Completely emotionally detached and all about the length of a tool.

Posted Aug 14, 2026, 5:55 AM UTC · locked

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