r/GayMen

23K archived posts · Nov 2010 – Sep 2026

An inclusive place for gay men to share their lives and experiences.

r/GayMen

An inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Created Nov 28, 2010

44KMembers (last snapshot)

23KArchived posts

Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

###[The Rules of r/GayMen](https://www.reddit.com/r/GayMen/about/rules/)

####Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

####Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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