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KejuCheZ

I texted her again

After researching in avoidant subs and trying to understand from a DA's perspective, i have concluded the following in my text:

I forgave her for what she did.

I told her that i understand why she did it and that whatever happened in her future she is still deserving and are able to love.

I told her to keep on living her best life.

And she blocked me immediately. Dunno what i expected from her TBH but it feels like a weight off my chest.

I'm guessing i still have lingering limerence towards her and that's why I did it in the first place. But i don't feel as heartbroken as i was when i talked with her the last time.

Anyways any opinions are really needed. I did what was right by me. Was i wrong in doing so?

Thanks

Posted Aug 14, 2026, 5:59 AM UTC

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