Every ForeverAlone's Fantasy: Girl Finally Realizes Her Sweet Guy Friend of 3 years is Amazing and Wants to Date Him (xpost from /r/askmen)
reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/213cpn/how_do_i_...Posted Mar 22, 2014, 8:58 PM UTC
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I don't know about anyone else, but having a girl settle for me after 3 years of what probably amounted to her fucking a whole bunch of other dudes on the side while the guy in the friendzone did her homework isn't exactly my idea of a "fantasy".
Maybe it's just me, but I would have enough clarity of mind to realize that she's probably just considering me as a potential boyfriend due to my future career prospects (i.e., she just wants to use me for my money). I would then have enough dignity and self respect to say "fuck no" to such an arrangement. Then again, I wouldn't be desperate enough to be doing some girls homework for 3 years just to be in her presence.
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Some of us can't even get into the friendzone.
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You don't really wanna get in the friendzone. You like a girl very much and you want to be with her, too bad she is only using you and she will ditch you in the moment she finds some1 else, leaving you worse than when you started. Ive been in 2 friendzones.
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Don't let yourself be used?
I don't even understand how you are being used. She's not forcing you to do things, and she's not promising you guys'll fuck. If anything, you're using yourself.
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True dat. I know I lied to myself and I let me being used by her, being a FA makes you do stupid things for a chance of happiness. She also gave me false hopes by holding hands with me whenever we walked outside, spending the nights with me, sleeping with me (no sex) etc... I should have known, but not everyone is smart.
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The thing that annoys me is that she friendzoned him and then still somehow expects him to make a move.
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Gender roles are strongly ingrained in this one!
As in like, America. It's a joke, because Yoda talks like that, get it?? I've never seen Star Wars though. Battlefront is a great game however. SOMEONE TELL ME THEY LAUGHED
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Don't know how to feel about this, it comes off as if the guy is more like a pet to her (very unequal investment in friendship) but maybe that's just me. Meh.
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Lucky bastard.
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I'm so alone, this post just made me realize that no fucking girl will ever fall for me. :( I'm crying, and it sucks so much knowing I will be alone until I die.
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No way.
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Oh no, why did I read that against better knowing :( God, I wish I was a woman, not even knowing what asking someone out means. I hope this works out now - it sounds like it could be very special.
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Lol....like that'll ever happen IRL. Most likely, she's bringing her pick and pan with her.
Only in anime do women unconditionally love you...only....^RISE^I^LOVE^YOU^SO^MUCH
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7 years and counting ...
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He deserves a quality girl. She just sounds like she's lonely inbetween fucking a lot of dudes, and no one has stepped up for the used goods.