Resurrecting the dead is never a good bargain
About myself: I'm a 24 years old Jr. Sysadmin (Computer Science Expert for System Integration) studying Business Information Systems and being quite addicted to r/TFTS and r/sysadmin.
My Brother-in-Law is getting self-employed (switching from employed) and asked me about giving him some advice for the needed IT-infrastructure of his future office.
We had a nice meeting (he paid lunch) talking about websites, email-domains, Microsoft Sharepoint / Office365, possible laptop-models (I suggested a Lenovo Thinkpad Edge E330 (with Win 7 Pro) as a budget solution & still being mobile) and some other IT-related questions. Afterwards he promised to get in touch with me when things are getting more serious.
That was end of February '14 and I had not received any email from him since then - until end of April. It turned out, he hadn't thought about what it meant to be self-employed: to have to organize everything himself (e.g. "I need flyers - damnit, I guess I have to look after an advertising expert because my (non-existing) secretary has non in her desk!") and to have a kind of a good "financial cushion" (so he shouldn't have to choose always the cheapest solution).
Acutally there was one sentence that made me cringe in his email (translated from german):
I finally made a good bargain in a roundabout way by buying a second-hand Acer Laptop, unfortunately with "Vista" - but the price was just right.
I honestly did not know what to reply on this. Everytime I saw his email in my inbox I was just speechless about this... simple-mindedness. Eventually I wrote him 5 days ago and intentionally did not mention the laptop:
Hey, I'm glad you started your new business and I hope everything runs well.
Feel free to meet discussing your ideas for a website.
Better translation of my email:
I am looking forward meeting you to brainstorm about the website.
/-- Update! --/
He answered having trouble with his laptop.
Posted May 27, 2014, 6:50 PM UTC · edited
Does family ever actually listen?
no.
Exactly.