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loneWolfProgrammer

Saw a pretty girl on the bus

I glanced at her a couple of times and naturally she doesn't even know I exist. She gets on this route regularly. I saw her talking to someone once and her smile is just heavenly. I feel pathetic just writing this. Because it's just a random girl on a bus, and also because the very notion of me being attracted to someone is utterly absurd unnatural and pathetic.

It's a known rule that if I'm attracted to someone in any way, they are repelled by me. Knowing this, I just want to fucking die. I could just jump off a tall building right now and I don't give a damn odd the outcome (as long as nobody else is hurt of course)

I just want to get home and go to bed.

Posted Feb 5, 2016, 6:08 PM UTC

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Never seek anything from strangers if you don't want to be a nervous and angry wreck while going outside. I want to get at a point where I just assume they all think I'm wonderful, which is just as irrational as thinking they all hate you but in one you don't become a depressed agoraphobic.

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You don't know anything about this girl other than she is pretty. I've come across a lot of females that were attractive at a distance but once I got to know more about them, I didn't want much to do with them.

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nebulablast2robot life•

Attractive people are used to be the center of the world, they don't have to be interesting, others will try to get their attention all the time so why would them even bother to try to be interesting? There's no fucking reason for that you're the monkey who needs to dance for them.

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I'm turned on by a pretty woman just like the next guy, but if the only appealing thing about her is the way she looks, I don't think I'd want a relationship with her. Looks are important but they're not everything.

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nebulablast2robot life•

We all know deep inside that looks are the most important (unless you're rich).

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you talk like you even have a chance with an attractive woman.

If the attractive woman is a nut, a gold digger, or a bitch I wouldn't want her regardless of my chance being 100% or 0%

in reality i've found attractive women tend to be nicer than the average woman because they get alot of positive feedback and acceptance from people which in turn builds their confidence and happiness levels.

Good for you. If they're so nice maybe they'll give you a shot. Many attractive women I've found to be conniving, vicious, arrogant, users. Those are some of the results of that simp-built confidence.

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"... you're the monkey who needs to dance for them." Oh yes, that's a great way to get a partner. After all, we know how much women love those nice guys.

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another30yovirginActually, no, I'm 34.•

So? That doesn't change the problem, which is that he's not comfortable enough to talk to her and get to know her.

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My point is that he's making a big deal over someone just because of a beautiful smile. He doesn't know enough about her to be this in love.

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another30yovirginActually, no, I'm 34.•

Yeah, but my point is that he hasn't had the experience of being disappointed by the dull personality behind a beautiful smile, so he thinks it's a big deal. He doesn't have enough experience with women to know he's not in love.

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I'm sure he knows that not all that glitters is gold.

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Hideawayhuman•

I mean is there another way to pick out women?

I don't think most people go around collecting biographies on every girl they meet.

I'm pretty sure they go after the ones they find cute and then find out the rest later. If you can't ever get to that 2nd step then you're just in a state of limbo.

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And most people don't become so struck by someone they know nothing about that they go on a website full of strangers and post about it and how it triggered them into thinking all these terrible thoughts about themselves.

If you see someone that looks hot, you can attempt to get to know them. If you can't do that, you forget about them and move on with your life.

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chaosakita•

Beggars can't be choosers

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loneWolfProgrammerOPProfessional Loser•

Good point. I've seen plenty of girls who I find attractive but have horrible personalities.

Meh. I was bored and tired after a week of work. Saw a girl I liked and got depressed. It happens.

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Under_the_bluemoon•

These are the kinds of posts that get users of this sub stereotyped and ridiculed. "I'm disgusting and no one could ever love me, but OMG, I saw a PRETTY GIRL!"

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voteGOPk•

stereotypes exist for a reason....

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loneWolfProgrammerOPProfessional Loser•

I was in a depressed mood at the time, and I just wanted to rant. I admit it was a little sad, but I make no apologies for finding someone attractive.

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aldo_nova•

Sometimes an attractive lady sits next to you on the bus and you get that momentary thrill. Nobody has ever been thrilled for me to sit next to them.

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merpsicle•

How do you know? Did she know you were thrilled to sit next to her? You have no idea what goes on in other people's heads.

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