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Anyone Notice How Once Good Looking People Become Average Looking While Committing to NoFap?

Is it just me or are people who I once thought were attractive looking gradually become OK while on a long NoFap streak? Suddenly that batista barista at Starbucks doesn't have the sexual attraction as before and thus I realize my Starbucks addiction is too much.

Is this the point where we look beyond simply how good one's body looks and instead focus on their personality?

Just an observation I have been noticing over the past few days.

Posted Jun 6, 2017, 4:39 PM UTC · edited

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pinata_awareness•

i actually notice the opposite to be honest. girls i once thought to be "average" - i now notice more and more attractive qualities in them

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BiddlyBurr•

^^ This

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Pkplayer7 Days•

Yep same

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SkyrimScholar175 Days•

Yeah i second this

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Aqpa2284 Days•

Me too - 100% true!

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supmydude26 Days•

Yep

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NoFapTea61 Days•

You're in the flatline phase.

Actually, NoFap makes women/men much, much more attractive to you and makes you more attractive to them.

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NinjistiKC•

Dude, yes. It could have something to do with your "P" standards decreasing and your natural attraction rising.

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Tesla4sure50 Days•

What is also interesting is how the products (people) of hollywood and the magazines take on an average look. You become aware that there are many beautiful people all over the world, and they are NOT the ones being pushed onto us as products.

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JoaoCesario22 Days•

you are getting there mate! I did feel that last week (when I was on a streak) and some of it remained with me after I F-ed up...You are changing, you can feel it!

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BitcionOP1 Day•

I must be in the cacoon of fapping awaiting the butterfly of mortality to hatch out.

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Aerosenz86 Days•

Batista...😂😂😂

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dyeguy20177 Days•

Angel Batista from Dexter? 😂

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BitcionOP1 Day•

Oh God. I hope not LMAO!

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BitcionOP1 Day•

Hehe, oops. Looks like my mind is on vacation while the autocorrect finds the time to correct me. How did batista end up in my dictionary?

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i36032 Days•

I think the complete opposite once the average looking girls look more attractive to me.

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rebootingtom22 Days•

I have noticed some changes in who I find attractive, in both directions.

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PattyIce3282 Days•

Totally feel you on this. When I was fapping I banged a few fatties and actually was turned on by them. I thought some women were gods and average women were sexy and above me.

Now 6 months sober and 2 months nofap I'm beginning to really see things more in reality and my true place in it. Some people are now really ugly, disgusting, gross or unattractive. I'm not gonna hate on that, I'm just not going to be attracted to it. Vice versa, all those women that are really good looking and average I now feel comfortable with and the attraction grows. It grows every.single.day.

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BitcionOP1 Day•

Yea, every person has dropped down a notch exactly as you mention. What I once would ogle with both my eyes and eye of Sauron I now don't even take a second glance at.

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PattyIce3282 Days•

We are also rising and finding our true place :)

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BitcionOP1 Day•

Rise above! I like it. Cheers to another day fap free.

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armanireadytonofap6 Days•

Keep going bro

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ToFapNoMorelsTheGoal3 Days•

Nope, it should be the other way around. You're probably in a flatline.

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