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Apache310

Same no-fap benefits for women?

I read several posts that when men successfully no-fap, women pick up on an aura and are really attracted to it. Wondering if it also works in reverse: that men can pick up on this in women as well. I'm also confused to what we are attributing this attraction. I'm a woman, by the way.

Posted Feb 18, 2018, 5:35 PM UTC

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Fredo100•

If you look at studies, women are most attractive to men when they are ovulating, in terms of micro-movements, scent and others that I can't remember.

For men, I believe when you don't ejaculate for a while and your balls are full, you express fertility in ways which women can sence, and thus become attracted to. Just a theory though.

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Apache310OP•

So what do full balls feel like and how long does it take to get there? Asking for a friend.

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Fredo100•

Old semen dies and goes back into to body as nutrients so you will feel waves of benefits which comes and goes. A bit like a woman's cycle.

I'd say 14 days ish.

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Apache310OP•

so it's not painful, nearly bringing guys to the brink of death if they don't stick it? Cuz that's what I'm reading on various posts.

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Fredo100•

No.

Horny men will justify anything to get a 'hit' aka orgasm.

I've abstained for weeks at a time and the benefits are great, especially the increase in energy and needing less sleep. Tbh no one outside this community would believe me because they haven't tried abstinence and are knocking one off everyday.

Semen isn't cheap nor a waste product and your body will take nutrients out of itself just to invest it into semen, just like it does to women who are pregnant and don't have enough nutrients for their baby. I believe this is related to where the enrgy comes from.

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Austober•

Hahahahah thats false

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ResentfulSoul59 Days•

masturbation has no negative effects on women. go out and get laid, woman.

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Apache310OP•

If it were only that easy......

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ResentfulSoul59 Days•

use tinder. getting laid as a woman is as easy as breathing in 2018. men are so thirsty they willm fuck anything

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Apache310OP•

If this is a compliment, it is indeed an odd one. "..will fuck anything"

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Fredo100•

Don't fuck anyone. Studies show, the more sex partners a women has, the less happier she is in marriage and more likely to have a divorce.

Gold standard study, if interested you can look it up.

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DarthBistan95 Days•

Since on Nofap you're spending your time and energy on more productive things instead of masturbating and porn. That puts you in a better mood and people respond to that?

It's not much, but I had to contribute with something seeing how your thread unfortunately got infected by a couple of pathetic incels and their backwards views.

Good luck on your journey!

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Apache310OP•

Thanks for that. I struggle btwn needing an outlet and not allowing it to overtake my brain.

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DarthBistan95 Days•

Fighting the urge is usually a lost cause. Either channel it with a physical activity (a run, a walk, workout) or get rid of it via cold shower (should work for women too...I think).

EDIT: Here's "Women in Reboot" section of NoFap forum. Should be more useful to you than this sub.

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Apache310OP•

thank you

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primotivegeth12 Days•

implying that getting a relationship is hard for females.

1 picture on tinder and your set.

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Apache310OP•

Relationship and Tinder do not belong in the same sentence. Allow me to rephrase: I can catch a stiff one anytime, but I'd like something that lasts a little longer than 12 minutes.

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primotivegeth12 Days•

As a 22 virgin, i have no sympathy for picky females to be honest.

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Apache310OP•

Good grief. I'm not picky. Would simply desire a real relationship instead of the constant hook-up culture. I was married for 20 years so I know of what I speak.

I think I see why you're a virgin to be honest.

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Apache310OP•

I'm old enuf to be your mother. Go to your room.

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primotivegeth12 Days•

i know your last response was intended to insult me, but i really dont give a fuck anymore.

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ResentfulSoul59 Days•

same. women's pickyness is the reason we are virgins

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Fredo100•

Obviously you're not worthy of fucking, if no one is willing to fuck you.

Don't make yourself the victim and put the blame on women. Reminds me of feminists who blame everything on men.

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