Apache310

A few days ago someone asked if there were any over 40's here. waves my hand I'm 54 but am told I look a decade younger. Anyhoo....

About me: Foodie who enjoys organic fare but appreciates a good smothered pork chop. Cartoons and documentaries work but true crime dramas are my jam. I really like rain. Hobbies: hiking, biking, yoga, road trips, reading, writing, fiscal responsibility. I love Jesus but I cuss a little. Ended a long marriage, got both kids off to college and after resetting my head and heart, I'm ready to make room for someone special. Slow and steady, though, no sudden moves. I tend to be traditional where relationships are concerned but I'm no prude. Not.at.all (wink).

Newbie here. What does Opsec mean? I dont' see it listed in the sidebar and I've seen it in a few posts....

I read several posts that when men successfully no-fap, women pick up on an aura and are really attracted to it. Wondering if it also works in reverse: that men can pick up on this in women as well. I'm also confused to what we are attributing this attraction. I'm a woman, by the way.

Anyone fall in love at age 45 and above? Would love to hear stories. Could use a little hope over here....

Age 50. Was thinking it would be over by now. Hasn't even started with perimenopause yet. Cycle still regular. Nary a hot flash or any other symptoms. Holistic doc says that's good news and a sign of good health before mentioning cases of cycles that didn't end until age 60. Lawd. Any one else in this spot??

Orig signed on a year ago, came on today and set up a new acct becuz my real name was my user name and I wanted privacy. Id read that more than one acct could be used per email so I thought it was fine. Tried to post but got a 'you are not allowed to post here' message. What did I do wrong???