Working Relationships Wednesday: Your Best Boss
Tell me about the best boss you've ever had. Have had one that really inspired you? One that taught you a lot? One that gave you that job that started you in a years long career you loved?
Tell us about them here!
Posted Apr 11, 2018, 2:40 PM UTC
My best boss has to be my Jewish Momma. I took a job working for her when I was 26 - she was a 5 foot dynamo who had climbed as high as she wanted to, so she saw her job to encourage her team and support their growth. If I called in sick, she'd have homemade chicken liver soup waiting for me the next day. She always got me cupcakes on my birthday and brought me fresh flowers from her garden. If I struggled with a thorny work problem, she'd take all the time out needed to help me work through it. She would tell me directly, and privately what I was doing well, and when I was missing the mark. But even then, her words were kind and constructive. I'd been terrified by job reviews until I met her, as they were excuses for my previous bosses to vent, not provide help. She always, always managed to find the silver lining, and as such I flourished working for her.
When I transferred out of that job into another one at the company and I was notified I was a layoff risk, she was the one I contacted for a reference not my then current boss. She also sat with me for an hour in the cafeteria and calmed me down when I cried about my fears of being laid off.
She firmly believed that strong women support others, not tear them down. I've not forgotten that example and try to now lead the same way.