My own mom threatened to get violent towards me just for texting her, not a single woman on the planet thinks I’m worth something

I’m in a really bad situation and I texted my mom just wanting to hear something nice from her for once, I literally have no one else in my contacts but she told me to never text her again because I’m too needy and she’ll start breaking my stuff if I do it again

I’m complete fucking trash with no qualifications or money who dropped out of college, I don’t know what to do wherever I go people just bully me, men and women alike both find me disgusting in every way

Posted Dec 9, 2018, 8:25 PM UTC

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DVWeekendWarrior•

Truck driver. If you're going to be alone might as well get paid for it.

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mmngaj•

Only for you to be jobless in 2 years.

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DVWeekendWarrior•

How? And don't say self driving trucks. That's wishful thinking.

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mmngaj•

Okay maybe not in two but definitely in 5 years time the majority of trucks will self driven. Even if the industry is going to die in 10 years, it's not long enough to make a career out of.

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DVWeekendWarrior•

There's a lot more to driving than runs on the interstate. So long as farms exist, there will be a need for a body behind the wheel. Tesla can't make something that can navigate a field, unload a combine, and drive it to the co-op. There will be no self driving propane bobtails, no way for the truck to drag the hose to the tank behind the garage, Hook it up, fill it. I'm guessing most on this sub live in the city where it looks like machines are going to take over. Outside that concrete jungle, we still do things as they were done 50 years ago. Maybe with cleaner engines, maybe with gps instead of paper maps. But, for all technology does to assist, for us it can never replace a human.

Edit: I also forgot about the government. Think they won't mandate a human inside that self driving truck, think again. The Feds control commercial driving and they rule with an iron fist.

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Bekiala•

Wow. Just having a mom that reacts this way beyond sucks. I don't know if there is something wrong with you but your mom sounds like a piece of work. With this lack of support, I'm pretty amazed you made it into college even if you did drop out.

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Shoot me a pm, if you need a kind word. I can at least do that.

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borecel•

Post the messages on r/iamtotalpieceofshit and at least get some sweet karma from your situation

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looksmaxxingcurry•

Nope. Normies and IT users will call him an incel in the comments and he will be thrashed

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Dominace100•

I don't mean to sound "bluepilled", but why do you place so much importance on people who see you as dog shit? I'm currently in that same situation and it fucking sucks. However, I'm forcing myself to take responsibility for the bullshit and slowly start cutting ties from certain people; it's difficult and painful. The people I live with, I don't deal with them unless I have no choice, and I try to keep things superficial with them. It's not easy, but I do what I have to do to keep from losing my mind. Even if it pisses people off. I'm sure you have enough self respect to do the same. Not advocating for you to go full on "Bluepill", but for you to have some self respect.

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FREEcel•

However, I'm forcing myself to take responsibility for the bullshit and slowly start cutting ties from certain people; it's difficult and painful.

Good post. If the people around you make you miserable, time to ditch them, even if it means hanging out by myself.

Actually did this myself; hung around with clubber-type people I didn't like (including a girl that only called me over to hang when she was hung over). Ditched them, spent about a year by myself, made new friends (AWESOME friends with similar interests) that I still hang out with almost 10 years later.

This first thing to do when you've dug yourself into a hole is to climb out. Don't worry about anything else, you can figure out the next part afterwards.

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nmaddine•

Most people who do that never make new friends. It would be like leaving a new job without another one lined up. Some people will eventually get a new job, some people will get a worse job, and some people will end up in a homeless shelter

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FREEcel•

Even so, it was still worth it. Having toxic people in your life as "friends" are far worse than being by myself. Even putting aside the simple fact "they're not actually my friends".

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[deleted]•

The last time my mom put her hands on me she got taught an important lesson that incels already know:

Guys that are bigger than you always win.

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yishnike•

yea what the fuck? proud of winning a fight against your mom?

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[deleted]•

She tried throwing boiled water thrown at my face and wouldn't stop trying to hit me. She did it to herself.

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yishnike•

my bad homie

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yishnike•

oh ok fuck her up

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Bekiala•

Sounds like a losing situation for everyone if you are in a physical fight with your mom. I hope you have some more positive relationships in your life.

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[deleted]•

Sounds like a losing situation for everyone if you are in a physical fight with your mom. I hope you have some more positive relationships in your life.

She did it to herself. She was stupid enough for trying to abuse me in the first place.

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Bekiala•

She doesn't sound like someone anyone would want in their life. Do you have contact with her anymore? Do you have other family members you get along with?

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[deleted]•

I don't get along with anyone in this family. They're all cucked.

I left her years ago. I went no contact but she already ruined my life so she won. Fuck.

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OutsideDream•

she's not well to say that. seriously not well & that's nothing to do with you but am sorry to hear you have to deal with it

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FREEcel•

Sad fact- not everyone's mom is loving and supportive to their children.

I'm gonna give some tough advice- don't ask other people for positive affirmation, you need to get by without it (most of all), and failing that, do something nice around people (in general) that would appreciate what you do.

Especially forget about getting any of it from your mom, as it appears she generally hasn't a nice thing to say. It sucks, but if it's your situation, do as Dominance said and start looking for a new life for yourself without the same toxic people in it.

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Daniel0739•

Hey dude! We’re in the same train here! Glad to meet you my fellow human trash brother!

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TheloniousAnkh•

Ever thought of seeking a D/s relationship?

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