OutsideDream

…. when have you ever seen men recognized as being at risk of domestic abuse? i'd like to see a girl and a boy child pictured. boys suffer too. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-leicestershire-52076978 (edit: article has picture of 'a male victim' and says how many men are at risk - I haven't seen this before)

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/fka2xk/an_announcement_for_this_subreddit/

Ignore Them as u/quercusp would say. does he remain in the land of the living? no posts for a month. anyway. no mod's, sigma doing whatever he/they wants, number of contributors 'worried it makes them look bad' rather than harm done to fellow humans. Widespread bullying of genuinely vulnerable men, nothing new here

did you know youth hostels (UK) organise group pub crawls, group theatre trips and more? won't be everyone's thing but i was on my own and wanted to go out i'd give it a try. Overnighter to a different city if you don't wanna do it at home!

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/emwmad/internet_safety_psa_regarding_a_predator_that/

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/eh29dd/time_to_bring_up_the_assumptions/ These people do more harm than good. Trigger warning: virgin-shaming, negative stereotypes, insults. All allowed to stand by the mods. GROSS. You cannot set up a safe space to invite people in then allow your supporters to shit on them. Avoid these people

can't help feeling this is more about the people who surprised him than loneliness. hope he has company next year when the cameras aren't there

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p07xn11x

'Cate Mackenzie, a dating coach and sex therapist with 20 years’ experience, says there is increasing recognition of “sexual privilege”: the difference between people who “can just meet people”, and those who, for a range of reasons, might reach their 30s or 40s never having had sex. She teaches clients how to flirt and relax into a conversation.'

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/apr/18/bedrooms-confidential-what-sex-therapists-hear-from-couch

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/uk-england-coventry-warwickshire-49167336/the-plus-size-model-championing-body-positivity-for-men

... not impossible ... https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jun/24/i-wanted-sex-on-my-terms-and-it-was-readers-on-the-joy-of-losing-your-virginity-in-your-30s

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jun/18/later-in-life-virgins-at-my-age-it-becomes-a-red-flag

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-48213284

some here may find this relatable. trigger warning - describes serious abuse in childhood

and how traditional therapy fails

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/09/our-goal-is-to-halve-the-male-suicide-rate-why-no-frills-therapy-works-for-men

some psychobabble for you - but this is a little bit effective. add 'and it's ok' onto your thoughts. 'I've done nothing today … and it's ok'; 'i'm tired …. and it's ok'; 'i've been stressed and depressed today …. and it's ok'. ppl often speak of loving yourself, being gentle on yourself but *how*? seems to be always illusory. it does seem to release something, thinking that for a few hours. won't solve any of life's problems by itself but does seem to create more relaxed mood

wants to interview British incels u/droflight if interested. he dm'd me

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Edit: I really appreciate that it's not easy for members of the Incel community to reach out to the media, and that there is a high level of concern amongst Incels over being misrepresented and caricatured, so I want to start by giving you some more information about the project that we are working on.

As the channel for 16-34 year-olds it's our job to report on issues that affect young people in the UK. The Incel community is clearly dealing with a lot of areas that young British people are familiar with in other contexts, such as loneliness, oppression, sexuality, depression, suicide etc. We feel that