How do I bag a tall, big ish, manly ish man?
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Posted May 14, 2019, 5:37 AM UTC
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Hahaha this cracks me up.
You have to be good looking, have actual hobbies and skills and not want to spend all day on your phone.
I dated this girl who was gorgeous and was pretty fun to be around, and she loved Disney so I took her to Disneyland for her birthday. But the entire time she just wanted to take photos, and post about what she was doing. Absolutely ruined the experience for me, because I don’t care about that shit, at all. I just wanted it to be our time, and our experience.
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Walk outside. Look around for said man. Begin conversing with him. Repeat until mate is found.
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Have you tried asking some out on dates?
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A few... they’re hard to find! (I live in Montreal. French men are not known to be the tallest).
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Lady, you are looking in the wrong place for those kind of men
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Find the type of man you want to date, and ask him out.
If you're asking for advice on how to attract men like that without actually taking the initiative, then this is the wrong sub to ask. If you want something, take the initiative and get it.
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Noted! I will approach them more. But how...
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How have men (successfully) approached you in the past?
Do that.
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Be the kind of woman that a nice, tall, manly man with a career would want to be with.
I'm not trying to be rude, but its a question that many guys ask foolishly and end up on "niceguys", because "how do i bag..." is implying there's some kind of set rules of play that will "win" you a man of your dreams. Its wrong for men, and its wrong for you to have that kind of mindset.
And even if you are nice, tall/good looking/desirable physically, and have a career, you will not attract all men who are also those things. You may only attract a small subsection of those men. Or none.
But lets say you do those things. Maybe, MAYBE you'll find a nice man who ticks some or most of those boxes, and then it becomes about how many of those boxes do you want ticked. Do you want a nice, career driven, manly man who is 5'4"? What about a tall man who is nice but has no drive for a career? Its up to you where to draw the line, but you are not entitled to a perfect man. No one is.
So stop thinking about how to "bag" a perfect man. Be a good person, and find someone who is a nice enough, successful enough, tall enough man. And be happy.
And hey, if you do find the "perfect" man for you, good for you!
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This. Effing this.
Posts like this are frightening, and should serve as a warning to all the tall good looking, career oriented, manly men out there. You are being shopped for like a Swiss mechanical watch. Beware!
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Attractive people are in demand, what's new here?
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Unfortunately nothing new. Just expressing some frustration at being objectified and shopped for as it makes it very difficult to enter into relationships based on mutual appreciation for being as opposed to the appreciation of utility.
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Eh...the question doesn’t work. Not like what you are looking for is a certain species of men that’s attracted to one profile of women.
I would loosely fit this criteria, but high n-counts, bisexuality, and single moms are all dealbreakers.
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What are n-counts? Why bisexuality? Just curious
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Men like those don't care for slags
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Wow, that is a total misconception. There are boring bisexuals trust me!
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get him on his hands and knees and start stroking his taint
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I feel like you skipped a few steps here
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oh right
you take off his clothes first
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When I go fishing, I know exactly what to bait my hooks with and where to cast it depending on whether I want to catch bass, smoothhound or cod.
Men aren't like that at all.
The women who get the type of man they want treat it more like spear fishing - take a deep breath, dive in and skewer that fucker right in the heart - or you'll be sitting forlornly on the dock your whole life getting irritated with bycatch and tiddlers.
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also, consider that it might come across as shallow for you to only be considering this one type of "ideal" man
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Be feminine, keep your hip to waist ratio under .8.
These guys are probably going to have a lot of options, so you need to understand that and not act like you are the last women on Earth.
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yep, they like nice taller women with careers who are kind of manly but not hyper masculine
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well you just gotta find out what he's into. there's no one sure fire way to "bag" any man. it's not that every big burly specimen is gonna like the same things. just talk first, it's not gonna happen overnight.
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Just be yourself.
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- Be ten years younger than you are
- Dress and behave in a feminine way
- Don't sleep around or talk about other men / women
- Go to places where the guys you like hang out
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I don’t think taste in women correlates at all with body shape, like at all.
So be thin is what you’re saying?
No, the fuck? I was saying that “tall, big, manly guys” is such a broad range of men that there’s not one specific type for them, since the description is so vague there’s gonna be hundreds of thousands of the Fuckers. And not every one of them is gonna like the same things in a partner.
Honestly, being slim and at least somewhat fit will open far more doors than it closes, yes.
Yes. Fat is bad.