sympathetic just don't mention the i word
Posted Jun 18, 2019, 9:18 PM UTC
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Life is looking up for Libby, not so for Richard and the others.
Shocking.
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At least Richard was kinda based when he replied to his therapist.
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Increment?
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“I’m excited to have sex with my future husband. What we lack in experience, we’ll learn together.”
Fuck, that hurts.
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why … isn't she saying that she doesn't mind/anticipates future partner having as little experience as her? incels usually fear the opposite ...
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Because that's what I want, and I've never heard a woman express wanting it, too.
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lol.
Quite literally "involuntary celibate but not incel"
most incels aren't incels according to that definition!
I’m actually Richard in this piece, I guess by definition I am an incel, but during the interview I mentioned it in terms of the current colloquial definition and the misogynistic associations that are attached to it.
You all seem to have a fine sub here.
A lot of what you said in the article really resonated with me as someone who is also a 30+ virgin. Hope everything works out for you brother.
Thanks, you as well!
Hey Richard, I just want to say that the way you handled your therapist was pretty awesome. I feel like most therapists aren't really equipped to handle inceldom.
Thanks, he was a sex therapist so I thought he’d have some actual insight into my issues.
He got pretty pissed when I said that, ha, but I only said it cause he kept saying over and over “and what would you be without this thought” instead of, ya know, helping me process and analyze the thoughts.
I like to say I spent $200 to get bro advice.
I actually have a therapist now who’s really good and listens and seems to understands my shit.
glad to hear that; first one seemed really insensitive and therefore useless
We try our best to not hate.
Bro I’m saying this as a friend you should pay for sex to get it over with
Holy fucking shit! How have I not thought of this!?!? Oh my God! Thank you!!! /s
Let’s not get into how it’s illegal where I live and I don’t want to perpetuate or support any form of human trafficking, and being the honest guy I am, would so much rather tell a potential partner I’m a virgin rather than that my first time or only experience was with a hooker.
Nothing against those who pay for it in legal parts of the world, as I think it’s asinine that’s it’s still illegal in most of the Western world, but it’s not about the dick in the hole for me.
Thank you for your advice tho.
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