I really enjoyed this. It was an honest piece that deals with the vulnerability that can come with huge commitments like that. Thanks for posting :)

This is one of the few 'Modern Love' pieces that I really appreciated. Whereas some of the others that I remember were about overcoming adultery in a marriage, this was much more hopeful and forward looking. And it wasn't about fixing a broken relationship, but rather moving past feeling broken while still being true to who you are.

Modern Love - Finding Marriage Without Losing a Self