What is going on within Stack Exchange, especially Stack Overflow?

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I saw several posts and discussions on several moderators resigning, like this and this. What's happening actually?

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Edit : I have read several responses and the comment from JesterBarelyKnowHer share several links which directly explained the situation on a moderator getting fired and other moderators resigning as a protest against Stack Exchange abrupt action.

While the comment from _PM_ME_PANGOLINS_ roughly explains the changes occurred within Stack Exchange for a couple of months. These changes are not perceived positively.

Comment from probably_wrong is also interesting and laid out several points against Stack Exchange comprehensively.

billgatesnowhammies provides TL;DR on why the said mod is getting fired.

I'll change the flair of this post to 'Answered'

Posted Oct 2, 2019, 9:36 AM UTC · edited

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Answer: I hadn't heard any of this, so I did some digging. Hopefully someone who is an active member/reader can elaborate, but I was curious and no one else has responded yet.

Based on this post, it sounds like there was a retroactive (and possibly illegal) content license change (also referenced here ) that a bunch of the mods disagreed with, vehemently. One of the mods (Monica Cellio) was also apparently fired because she was asking questions, which is what kicked off the other resignations.

I do not know the other side of things, but those two sources seem to be being professional enough that I'm comfortable relaying their words and presenting them as relatively unbiased as an answer, but like I said, this is new to me, so hopefully someone has a better answer.

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TheOnlyMego•

The situation has very little to do with the content license change - mods resigned over a mod getting demodded for asking questions about another pending change. Not much can be said due to confidentiality agreements, but the mods who have resigned did so to protest the completely overblown and inappropriate response by the company.

The content license change is only mentioned because it's another poorly-thought-out change by the network that was announced recently, and the criticisms have yet to get an official response - it's evidence of a pattern.

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dpkonofa•

Let me guess... All these changes come in the wake of a leadership change initiated to seek more effective ways of monetizing the platform. (Insert Austin Powers "Yay, Capitalism!" GIF)

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classy_barbarian•

They just got a new CEO. So yeah you are correct.

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dpkonofa•

Big surprise there. It's the guy from Rackspace who drove that company to shit while gaining them lots of profits before all the users sped away in droves.

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dpkonofa•

I am shocked! Shocked, I tell you.

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deadlychambers•

Download stackoverflow before they start charging...got it.

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hitlers_glans•

how to move forward faster

The old CEO already had an ill mindset it seems.

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StaniX•

Its either that or someone pushing their political ideology. Those two things are almost always the culprits of sites going down the drain.

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classy_barbarian•
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BeezDragon•

Why not both? Capitalism is a political ideology too, after all.

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TheTapedCrusader•

I feel like you two basically just said the same thing.

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Zilveari•

(Insert Austin Powers "Yay, Capitalism!" GIF)

Capitalism ho mother fuckers!

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dpkonofa•

Capitalism definitely is a ho. He/she's nice and sweet when starting off but still all about that money...

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nermid•

(Insert Austin Powers "Yay, Capitalism!" GIF

Got your back, Jack.

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hahaasinfucku•

nope. gender pronouns

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dpkonofa•

Wrong. The gender pronouns were one of the changes brought on by the leadership change.

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tekanet•

Oh god I can’t take another of their excuse posts. “Sorry, we fucked up! AGAIN!”

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_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_•

What are you talking about? They never say sorry.

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tekanet•

Other issues they had with intolerance, racism or whatever

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rock_hard_member•

You might call it evidence of an anti-pattern

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krakenaut•

This should be the top answer. People are disgruntled by the pending change to the Code of Conduct, coming off the back of the license change (which was very poorly received), but the mod situation was not because of the licenses.

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sonofaresiii•

Not much can be said due to confidentiality agreements, but the mods who have resigned did so to protest the completely overblown and inappropriate response by the company.

It seems like a poorly-thought out move to protest something you can't talk about.

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_pupil_•

It's not a "get everyone on the streets" protest, it's an "f-u, I'm not that kind of prostitute" protest.

And losing senior people always hits the corporate radar, even if it changes nothing immediately.

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sonofaresiii•

fair enough

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floyd616•

Right? Imho they should just tell it all anyway, confidentiality be darned, if they really want to make their voices heard!

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I looked a little more into it, and it sounds like

bias: Things are getting a little too SJW for some people. To be clear, I largely agree with a lot of the social justice movements, but I do feel like some people use the movement as a cudgel to beat others into submission with, and it is often paired with a contempt for the people they are actually "speaking up for." It sounds like there was a push for "diversity" that sounds a lot like what I was talking about. It is referenced here and is about a decree issued from "on high" about gendered pronouns, with someone having legitimate concerns about the implications of one of the decrees. That person was then demodded, with the implication that it was because they dared to ask questions.

That is very concerning.

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TheOnlyMego•

The resignations have nothing to do with any anti-SJW sentiment and everything to do with the deplorable way that network staff have handled the situation. Many moderators who have resigned have stated as such.

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It's less about anti-sjw sentiments, and more concerns about how the aims are being achieved. Here's the post of the mod who was demodded, and at the end she gets into more of what I was talking about. I found that thread linked directly from the one I posted.

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Michalusmichalus•

I'm not a writer, I had to look up 3rd person singular to be certain. I've experienced this level of petty.

They, Them, Their etc are all "safe" ways to respect a person's preferred gender of you're not sure ( for myself I'm so nervous that I'll forget, I say stupid shit)

Demanding a gendered pronoun seems to be a set up for a future complaint. My mother still calls out every child's name, and the dogs too when she's trying to say my name. Good thing it's funny, she totally misgenders and misspecies us.

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DiplomaticCaper•

If you use everyone’s name (or handle in this case) to refer to them and that’s just the way you communicate, it’s totally fine.

If you use pronouns in general conversation with everyone except trans (binary or non-binary) people, and pointedly only use names when referring to the latter, it could be indicative of a lack of respect for the latter’s gender identities.

Like someone who’s trying to follow the letter of the law by not actually misgendering someone, but stepping right up to the limit. Rules lawyers, basically.

Trans people could understandably see that as hostile, while the people doing it could previously claim plausible deniability.

The COC changes appear to be removing that loophole.

Presumably, if this was reported as a violation, communications would be reviewed in more detail. Someone who generally communicates on a name-only basis with everybody would probably be fine, but someone who only uses names with people known to be trans could be punished according to the guidelines.

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floyd616•

While I agree about they, them, their, etc, the problem is that, technically, using those pronouns to to refer to someone singularly is actually grammatically incorrect. To be grammatically correct, you have to use "him or her", "he or she", etc. IMHO those are very clumsy, so I have always preferred to use they, them, their, etc, but in academia (which is notorious for being very slow to adopt new social conventions) it is still seen as very informal to use they, them, their, etc to refer to a single person. This is why, if you read even the most recent academic papers, they will always refer to a single person of indeterminate gender by either using the clunky "he or she"-type language, or by simply choosing to address the person with male pronouns or with female pronouns, and then use the opposite gender if they have to refer to a second individual of indeterminate gender. English is pretty much the only language that has this problem, as basically all other languages have another set of pronouns that are used for a single person of indeterminate gender. There is a movement within academia to get they, their, them, etc officially recognized as the English langauage's equivalent for this, but last I heard they have not yet succeeded.

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Farnswirth•

Wow man, you're 100% right. I have no idea why you're getting downvoted.

The situation on stack exchange is literally the exact same as what happened with Jordan Peterson.. except at SE the guy speaking out against compelled speech got fired.

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timbotemon•

JP is the guy who lied about Bill C16 right? Apart from being a junkie the only other thing of note I can remember was when his post at university of Cambridge was rescinded because he was photographed embracing a 'proud Islamaphobe' in Christchurch weeks before the mosque shooting there. Is that the situation you are referring to?

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austin0matic•

apparently you have upset a few people by...stating facts?

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Eh, I admitted some bias. People are allowed to disagree with me, I'm not terribly worried. I spent years working at a university, so I've seen both sides of a lot of the SJW movement. Both the parts that are DESPERATELY needed and I wholeheartedly support, and the parts that I personally feel are dishonest/overstated/ultimately non-beneficial.

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HINDBRAIN•

Trans drama is an instant 200% anger multiplier in any internet discussion. It's magical.

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probably_wrong•

I don't have a full answer either, but I can expand yours a bit.

Stack Overflow (SO) has been doing some big changes recently, and some of those have not been well received. 3 months ago they changed the homepage in a way that pushed visitors too aggressively towards making an account. One week ago one of the founders was replaced as CEO, which was seen as a sign that SO might be putting more emphasis on the business side of the website and less on the community.

In this context, we now have a wave of recent resignations regarding the new Code of Conduct (CoC) and the new licensing.

  • The new CoC (which AFAIK is not out yet, but soon will) has some interesting clauses in it, and mods that raised objections towards them were demodded/fired.
  • The licensing issue, on the other hand, is that SO has forcibly relicensed all content in the website. The change by itself is not major, but a. this is not how licensing work, and b. it's uncharacteristically aggressive.

All of these points indicate a very strong change in the internal culture of the site, and many mods are protesting in return.

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classy_barbarian•

So here's a question about how this licensing shit works. Lets say a person writes a program using code they obtained for free from Stack Overflow, and the license previously said that anyone could freely use the code to write whatever program they want and then sell that program to make profit for themselves. Can stack exchange then say "oh, anyone who had previously gotten code for free off our website that is in a program you are selling, you now have to start paying us, otherwise you can't sell your program anymore and we'll sue you if you try to keep selling it"?

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blamsur•

CC BY-SA 3.0 and CC BY-SA 4.0 are irrevocable licenses. If the author/publisher later revokes the content, it does not revoke your license.

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CreativeGPX•

It'd be extremely hard to even attempt to enforce that (starting with the idea that you can use it as an anonymous platform and they would have trouble even locating offending code since it may be privately held), but also I'm pretty confident that would be illegal.

What they can do is prompt anybody who visits their site agree to a new license which supersedes the old one, which most people will probably do. And that agreement can have all sorts of terms that contradict the old one. However, in that case at least, somebody who doesn't want that can just not agree to the new license and stop using the service.

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EmperorArthur•

No, because that's not how copyright works. They might be allowed to use it, but they don't actually own any of the posts on the site. Claiming otherwise is fraud. It's just one that no one will probably prosecute.

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Jazzinarium•

Even if they could there is zero chance of them ever being able to enforce it

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OppositeStick•

Sounds like a perfect opportunity to launch a competitor.

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DiplomaticCaper•

One of the resigning mods of the Christianity SE site used that “First they came for the socialists...” poem to protest the situation. 😂

To his credit, he was at least honest about the reasoning. It was because of fucking pronouns.

The new code of conduct apparently includes measures on purposefully misgendering trans people, etc.

This includes deliberately referring to someone ONLY by their name/handle if you know what pronouns they prefer and are using pronouns to refer to everyone else simultaneously. Most people who do that know what they’re doing: it’s the classic gambit of the annoying younger sibling that goes “I’m not touching you!”

A mod apparently objected and ended up being terminated.

Lots of mods went bananas and resigned in solidarity, with the usual arguments about how it’s an affront against freedom of speech and/or their religious beliefs to force them to respect pronouns if known.

Users can get away with it on most questions on most SE sites because they don’t directly involve gender, but mods are more likely to have to talk to specific individuals one on one.

From the outside (as someone who has used SO and asked questions there but was never involved in the meta), it’s yet another tantrum thrown by people with at the very least latent transphobia who are forced to come to terms with it.

SE may not have handled it the best, and there appear to have been preceding issues, but everyone in this scenario comes out looking like an asshole IMO.

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pi_over_3•

This includes deliberately referring to someone ONLY by their name/handle if you know what pronouns they prefer and are using pronouns to refer to everyone else simultaneously.

So they consider it bigoted to simply not use any pronouns at all? That's bizarre.

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Zonetr00per•

Not even just that, but also just general gender-neutral pronouns. For clarity, one of the moderators made a point that she'd been specifically going out of her way use neutral terminology to avoid hurting anyone. This was still apparently "bigoted".

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ifandbut•

I know why your post is marked contraversal, but it shouldn't. You are stating the facts.

https://christianity.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/6718/brothers-i-must-go

What changed is this: now it isn't enough just to avoid being rude to people you disagree with, the new policy forces us to positively affirm the other parties' position. Even disengaging was specifically ruled out as an allowable solution since that would be discrimination and potentially "hurtful".

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If person A comes along and demands that I refer to them by their "preferred pronoun" ... and I refuse, that's considered an insult.

Now, SE staff's enforced interpretation is that if if I avoid pronouns altogether, whether by carefully avoiding sentences that even need pronouns at all or be sticking to proper names or by disengaging from the individual — those are all being considered insults too if the other party says they are insulted.

This is just eye rolling bad.

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JesseRoo•

It's marked as controversial because they said you're an asshole or transphobe for thinking the rules are bad.

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JeremyDavisTKL•

people with at the very least latent transphobia who are forced to come to terms with it.

I'm not so sure about that... Considering that a self-identified "queer cis woman" titled a post "We can support the Lavender community of Stack Exchange and protest SE's treatment of Monica." ( see https://meta.stackexchange.com/a/334117/338623 ).

And Monica (the sacked mod in question) responded:

Just for the record, I have no problems with a policy of "when using pronouns, use the preferred ones". Sara seemed to be calling for something much stronger, which would be confusing and super-hard to assess. But I never got an answer on that.

The ultimate irony is that it's actions like this (by SE) that add fuel to the fire. IMO it just gives more ammo to idiots that run around screaming "PC gone crazy" and espouse views the LGTBI community are a "bunch of snowflakes"...

It's also incredibly ironic that SE have treated this person (who let's not forget was a well respected volunteer) so disrespectfully in the guise of enforcing a "be nice and ensure nobody gets hurt" policy. The mind boggles. Seems like a case of "do as I say, not as I do"?!?

[Edit - re-reading my post, I wonder if posted on SE whether it would be considered a breach of (upcoming) SE CoC seeing as I used "this person" to describe someone who identifies as a women?! ]

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_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_•

In fact Sara Chipps has used a pronoun to refer to Monica that she specifically said she found offensive, violating the zero-tolerance policy that she was fired for questioning.

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DiplomaticCaper•

Gay, lesbian, and bisexual people can still be transphobic.

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label_and_libel•

This includes deliberately referring to someone ONLY by their name/handle if you know what pronouns they prefer and are using pronouns to refer to everyone else simultaneously. Most people who do that know what they’re doing: it’s the classic gambit of the annoying younger sibling that goes “I’m not touching you!”

What is it you think they're doing?

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Impulse92•

The only thing I can add was six months or so ago I worked at a warehouse that fulfilled Stack Exchange/Overflow orders and before I left we had literally started throwing their branded merch away because “they were no longer a client and the company was not interested in the merch being shipped back to them.” If that happened with a different client then generally we’d have boxed up everything and mailed it to wherever they decided to distribute from from then on.

So they’ve been having some kind of issues for a while now, at least with fulfillment. Because throwing away branded merch like that is always a weird sign. On the other hand I have a bunch of new cheap shirts and hoodies and such for exercising or outdoor work now

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IamAlchemy•

Back in the day, I would've offered to buy some of that Stack Overflow merchandise from ya. Nowadays, I'm not so sure that I even want to be connected with the site at all, despite having contributed countless hours there.

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tackackack•

Seems like a 2-line script could easily replace all mods on SE.

for post in new_posts:
    post.close("Closed as duplicate.")
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HINDBRAIN•
for post in new_posts:
 if responses < 2
     post.close("Closed as duplicate.")
 else
     post.close("Attracted low quality answers.")
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DudeImMacGyver•

Wow, that's fucked up and disappointing.

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Named256•

The content license has almost nothing to do with Monica. This post by her on Judaism Meta explains it.

The behavior that Gilles describes happened in the Teachers' Lounge, a private chat room for moderators. I was the victim. Someone with a "director" job title had dropped into the room to announce an upcoming change to the Code of Conduct; unlike the rest of the CoC, this rule mandates specific, positive actions.1 I raised some issues with the formation of the policy and asked some questions, the vast majority of which were never answered. I was polite and was trying to work with others to solve a problem I have with the change as presented.

After a couple hours, the director responded, chastising me for raising issues and saying my values were out of alignment. I said I would leave the room to avoid causing problems, and did so. The Teachers' Lounge is a resource for moderators, but there is no requirement to participate there and many moderators do not. This appeared to be a TL-centric issue.

Two days later (Friday September 20), after a lot more discussion, a community manager instructed people to send email if they have concerns. I did so in the minutes before Shabbat.

On Monday I received email from a different CM explaining why they were making the change and mis-stating some issues I had raised. Concerned that I had not made myself clear in my haste to respond quickly on Friday, I replied with some questions. This was an amicable exchange; I thought we were having a productive conversation. I was promised a reply by this past Friday.

Instead, I saw my diamond disappear before my eyes and briefly saw an announcement from a CM in TL that contained false allegations against me. When I tried to respond I was booted from the room. Around this time I received email firing me. This email did not cite anything I have done wrong; this was a pre-emptive move that runs counter to how SE tells moderators to treat users when considering suspensions. (Moderators suspend in response to behavior, not speculatively.)

About the actual rules change:

The policy is an update to the Code of Conduct that requires us to use people's preferred pronouns (when known). What was posted in the TL wasn't polished language; I assume they're working on that. I completely agree that it is rude to call people what they don't want to be called; knowingly misgendering someone is not ok. But the policy was about positive, not negative, use of pronouns. I pointed out that as a professional writer I, by training, write in a gender-neutral way specifically to avoid gender landmines, and sought clarification that this would continue to be ok. To my surprise, other moderators in the room said that not using (third-person singular) pronouns at all is misgendering. The employee never clarified, and this is one of the questions I asked in email. In my email I said clearly that I'm on board with "use preferred pronouns when using pronouns", but from the fact that they fired me without warning (or answering the question), I conclude that that's not the policy. I haven't seen an actual policy, though I am being accused of violating it.

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Michalusmichalus•

I had no idea they had a mythology and folklore section!

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[deleted]•

if it something related to community governance it's most likely political imo.

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jackandjill22•

Hm.

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lector57•

Wikipedia also had a license change from GFDL to CC...

but that's ancient internet history and nobody remembers

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BluegrassGeek•

The difference is that WP was still open-sourced, there was a discussion about changing licenses, and folks were free to fork into another site using the old license if they wanted.

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Direwolf202•

That change was legal, was made by referendum, and with good justifications — and was towards a license that the community felt was more appropriate for wikipedia.

GFDL certainly has its flaws, CC-BY-SA was felt to cover for those flaws in a way that worked well for the platform. If you disagree that’s fine, but this is totally unlike the stack overflow issue.

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lector57•

nope, a lot of people were in disagreement and the higher ranks on WP forced the change.

and it was for the worse, since now everybody copies photos and text from wikipedia and you just credit "from wikipedia", while before you had to credit the actual content creators (specially glaring on commons). This is the real reason for forcing the license change, so people need just to credit "wikipedia" (ironic since by those years there was a big push to foster people releasing content under free licenses (not just on WP) under the argument your attributions would be preserved)

and it was a change to a compeltely new license, not just a version bump like Stack Exchange.

AND your forking argument applies as well, if content is under CC-BY-SA 3.0, you can fork it and keep the same license. (therefore, issue reslved by your argument)

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Direwolf202•

There were a lot of people who disagreed, that is certainly true. But generally more people agreed than disagreed. The higher ranks certainly didn’t force the change — they brought it up and then implemented it, but it was not forced.

And all the people who copy things and say “from wikipedia” are all failing to satisfy the CC-BY-SA attribution requirements, the author of the work is known — at least by screen name — and must be attributed and the author is not wikipedia. The original author should - if possible - be attributed for anything non-native to wikipedia. So for images, you attribute to the photographer or artist instead of the person who uploaded it to a Wikimedia project.

The text is a little more complicated, since identifying a cohesive author is next to impossible, but by providing the link or URL of the page is the generally accepted method. Simply saying “from wikipedia” is most certainly not.

Further, GDFL requires that you provide a local copy of the license, which is more than impractical — especially for printed copies. People are rather more likely to just add an authorship attribution, and the text “CC-BY-SA 3.0” than they are the details required by GDFL.

I didn’t make any comment about forking, that was a different user, but point applies — they can fork should they wish and the license is maintained.

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_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_•

Answer: Most-recent first (I've probably forgotten something, and some of the ordering of the later things may be wrong).

  • Staff make several statements explaining things to the press (e.g. the Register) instead of on Stack Exchange
  • Staff make ill-judged "we're sorry you feel that way" canned responses
  • Multiple volunteer moderators resign for a variety of subtly different reasons
  • A well-respected volunteer moderator was terminated in a disrespectful manner
  • (non-public) New draft changes to the Code of Conduct are both objected to and questioned for clarity
  • The remaining co-founder of the site is replaced as CEO

--- ~ a week ago

  • A legally-dubious retroactive change to all content licensing is suddenly announced, with no justification or response to concerns
  • Staff admit that they don't consider browser fingerprinting or animation in their adverts to be a problem, contradicting previous assurances

--- ~ 6 months ago

  • (non-public) a pattern of deliberately not addressing people as they have asked to be addressed in chat rooms and other venues
  • The mechanism by which meta issues are surfaced on the site is suddenly removed. Staff claim because the negative response to their announcements causes "panic attacks"
  • Staff accidentally leak user email addresses by CCing to contest winners instead of BCC
  • The homepage was suddenly changed from the usual list of questions and "Ask" button to a corporate marketing page that obfuscated how to actually get to the free Q&A system
  • A reasonably popular site is suddenly removed from the "hot network questions" list in response to a single tweet, in contrast to years of ignored feature requests that would have avoided the problem

--- ~ a year ago

  • A mandatory arbitration clause is added to the ToS. A promised secure opt-out mechanism is never implemented.
  • A big announcement is made blaming volunteer moderators and all contributers in general for not being "welcoming" when trying to dispassionately maintain content quality
  • Development effort is generally spent on redesigning the look-and-feel, rather than feature requests for better moderation tools, among other things

So a lot of people are very annoyed about a lot of different things. A lot of this is covered in this post and all the various posts linking out from it.

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angry_old_dude•

A big announcement is made blaming volunteer moderators and all contributes in general for not being "welcoming" when trying to dispassionately maintain content quality

I had an account over there for a while and was signed up for several of the different forums and my overall impression is that moderators and regular contributors are more interested in enforcing rigid adherence to the rules and maintaining order than they are in topics under discussion. And they weren't always particularly polite about it. I found the whole experience pretty unfriendly.

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Shixma•

The classic removed for duplicated question and the duplicate they link not even being remotely similar to what you asked.

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eight-acorn•

Yeah exactly. Questions were flagged as duplicate constantly that were not the same remotely.

For instance in SQL a top(*) query being slower than a non-top * query --- they linked to a question that was asking the exact opposite.

I've had a few "bitched at" questions that won Awards for "Famous Question" (10,000+ views) or got 30+ upvotes. Even though they were flagged by multiple assholes as "duplicate question/ not allowed question."

Oh your question flagged by mods as "useless shit" was voted by the community as most useful question in the past 3 months. Interesting.

There's either perverse incentives there, or certain Mods get high off their own farts.

Can't say I'm crying over their Kingdom getting shat on. The rules were comically stupid and didn't lead to more help; they led to less.

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Ailbe•

This has been my experience at Stack as well. Ask questions with as much insight as you can muster, provide some indication that you've tried to solve the problem yourself but just can't quite understand this or that bit, provide details, then get shit on by assholes who just get off on being a jerk online. This has been a consistent thing over the year, to the point that I have no interest in posting there anymore, or providing insights. I'd rather use a site that isn't full of entitled, smug jerks.

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_soundshapes•

There's either perverse incentives there, or certain Mods get high off their own farts.

To be fair, this is my experience with StackExchange users in general, not just mods. It's obviously an incredibly useful resource, but so many people there seem to just use it as a dick measuring contest of their own intellect.

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_PM_ME_PANGOLINS_•

Indeed, but on the opposite side people who've dedicated ten years of their life to helping others by answering questions were suddenly being told it's all their fault, while simultaneously trying to lift their head above a never-ending torrent of identical "fix ma codez" questions that don't even include the code.

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angry_old_dude•

Mods and contributors are not entirely blameless. There are plenty of friendly ways to moderate and keep people on the right track with the rules.

I full admit, after some reflection, that the problem isn't stack overflow. The problem is that I just don't like the way things are done over there. Which is why I stopped going there on a regular basis.

Edit: removed snark, added stuff.

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Arianity•

There are plenty of friendly ways to moderate and keep people on the right track with the rules.

i think it largely depends on what you think the goal of the site should be. Their method is better for long term searchability/reducing reposts.

As someone who only uses it when i get some obscure bug, their approach generally makes it a lot easier to find a relevant answer. It comes at the cost of being more loose.

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wazoheathelpimtrappedinaflairfactory•

Volunteer moderators don't have time to deal with people who don't read rules and don't search for previous answers.

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dontreachyoungblud•

As someone who has used Stack Overflow and Super User, I will say there is more of an ‘unwillingness to help beginners’ than a ‘disrespectful unfriendliness’, but those are my own encounters.

From the experience of asking questions on the technical/programming boards when new to learning a language or software, it’s defeating to try to follow the rules of posting a question only to see it get abruptly closed by a mod without any helpful answers.

New programmers do have legitimate, random questions that aren’t senior-level, but it’s semi-difficult to get informative responses on those types of questions when they are seen as ‘too noob’.

Not all the mods are bad, though not all the mods are altruistically helpful either.

Freelancers and senior engineers can use Stack Exchange badges and karma as a “resume-booster” for a mark of how good programmers they are, so there is a present dichotomy of “The Professors” mod group who are just naturally passionate about programming and learning, and “The Career-ers” mod group who are just trying to build up their personal brands on the site in order to make more money.

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forums ... discussion

This is likely where a lot of the friction comes from. They aren't forums; they're not for discussion. They're for specific questions and objective answers.

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angry_old_dude•

I wrote forums because I couldn't remember what the various sections are called over there.

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keithrcout of the loop about being out of the loop•

This isn't right. In many cases, there's more than one good answer. Weighing the merits of which answer is the best for the situation is a discussion.

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SamJSchoenberg•

As they should be. Enforcing adherence to the rules is what moderators are there for.

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keithrcout of the loop about being out of the loop•

Imagine you're in a museum. There are docents and security guards around. You get too close to an exhibit. Do you want a docent to approach you and say, "Please maintain the required distance from the art," or do you want a security guard to come and tell you, "You're breaking the rules, get the fuck out of here."

A mod can choose to be a docent or a security guard, and effectively perform their role.

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HINDBRAIN•

Or you offer a long lost painting and it gets closed as a duplicate because a different painting also has a woman depicted in it.

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Direwolf202•

This is true, and I think many users felt that the mods being unwelcoming and unhelpful was a real issue, but the manner in which it was addressed was ineffective and only served to antagonise people.

That said, I have also found that many of the mods and contributors certainly are very helpful even if they aren’t the most polite and welcoming. Once you get used to the way that things tend to work, it’s rarely an issue.

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angry_old_dude•

I'm probably being too harsh in my assessment. I have no doubt that the sites I was signed into, which were mainly non-technical is coloring my opinion. I think people are generally helpful, but the culture, for lack of a better term, just isn't for me. At least not on a regular basis.

This whole situation over there with all of the stuff being discussed here seems pretty messed up. There are ways to handle things without causing an uproar and the behind all of these changes clearly haven't learned that.

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flamebroiledhodor•

I had no idea. I thought some of the assholes marking my questions as duplicates or just straight up hiding them because of formatting (on a three sentence post... How much formatting can you expect?) were just incel neckbeards getting they're jollies off.

But this? I'll never ever be back to the site. Even if that means i have to explicitly ignore it in my googling.

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stressede•

If you get stuck, just post a question on stackoverflow and the community will tell you for which reason you should not be asking that question.

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PaulFThumpkins•

It's like if I posted asking what the main ingredients in a peanut butter sandwich are, and they asked to see a photo of my kitchen and the knife I'll be using first, then deleted the thread because somebody already asked about BLTs a year ago.

Which is it, can questions not be answered unless you provide a completely personalized use case, or is any yahoo's vaguely related question suitably redundant to yours?

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j0s3f•

The sites are not for discussion, free tutoring or anything similar. They are to provide answers to questions.

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brendel000•

It is a bad experience for the one that ask question, but maybe that is what makes the site interesting for people looking for answer. You may find your questions interesting but don't forget mods have to deal with a shitload of shitty posts every days.

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sadomasochrist•

This is most internet forums honestly. I would say about 80% of threads I start have a common theme of expected problems.

Let's say you have a question, you want to know what is the most reliable domestic car, that has a lot of headroom.

This is what I would expect.

  1. Many\significant number of users make a point about something already covered in the OP. (e.g. I am not considering foreign cars, replies : Honda makes great cars)
  2. Lots of tone policing, side discussions (e.g. can you even afford a car right now?)
  3. Attempts to redirect the conversation (e.g. Are you sure you aren't better suited for a truck?)

Stack exchange is good about this stuff, this is very annoying as an OP.

BUT IT HAS TO MAKE IT THERE AS A POST FIRST

So, yeah, I've run into this problem A LOT with ASK X posts. In pretty much all of those subreddits, I've found it impossible to ask anything. Straight up.

e.g. Try to get a discussion of pop-science topics that are treated like hard science which are only held to soft science standards (e.g. climate change).

This is something I've been curious on, it does not mean I'm "against climate change" or anything like that, but to me I see that it's given a soft science bar of treatment, but everyone treats it as hard science gospel. If people held it to the same standards they hold these threads to, they wouldn't believe in it.

e.g. easily observable trends in the world that require no scientific explanation whatsoever = unknowable. Studied phenomenon with very likely explanation = can't speculate. (Hard science position), e.g. all atheists "should actually be militant agnostics."

Yet you take something like climate change, which is well reasoned speculation and it's 100.00% certain. And guess what, it probably is, I don't even question that.

But again, try to find other things like this in science. Ask that question, good luck.

So yeah, on the one hand I sympathise with them, people on discussion forums SUCK. There are SO FEW people that aren't just injecting themselves into the discussion, rather than sorting the discussion AS THE OP HAS ASKED\THE FORUM REQUIRES.

And then those very same people who behave poorly become "volunteer mods" who try to impose their views onto the forum\org.

So yeah, I get it.

Less "I think it should run like this" and more stick to the forum and stop bothering the admins.

These people are poison on both sides of the fence IMO.

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4PianoOrchestra•

Does reverse order of recency mean chronological?

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Err, I'm not sure what it means now. Will edit.

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fishbulbx•

A big announcement is made blaming volunteer moderators and all contributers in general for not being "welcoming" when trying to dispassionately maintain content quality

Their attempt to address the "not welcoming" issue last year was immediately hijacked by social justice warriors.

Too many people experience Stack Overflow as a hostile or elitist place, especially newer coders, women, people of color, and others in marginalized groups.

They basically conclude that because women and minorities complain more about the site, the content creators must be bigots. I'll wager a lot of these issues are fallout from using their soapbox to lecture their top content creators and moderators to check their privilege.

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umexquseme•

The mechanism by which meta issues are surfaced on the site is suddenly removed. Staff claim because the negative response to their announcements causes "panic attacks"

How did adult babies gain control of a massive website like Stack Exchange?

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pi_over_3•

It seems like people with nothing going in the real world seek out these positions of internet power.

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suddencactus•

A reasonably popular site is suddenly removed from the "hot network questions" list in response to a single tweet, in contrast to years of ignored feature requests that would have avoided the problem

What's the details of this part?

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suddencactus•

First, that's stupid that features like opt-in to hot network questions or a mechanism to remove click bait from hot network questions weren't implemented before Twitter drama started. Classic case of management thinking they have a monopoly on good ideas and perspective.

Additionally, the implications by users that they should be able to get away with much worse and the problem is just the outsiders attitude, is a disturbing lack of introspection and personal responsibility. There are lots of true but loaded lines like:

  • The worst thing that can happen is that all this causes communities to constantly look over their shoulder worried that some random person on Twitter is going to tweet the right person, and... boom, we get kicked out of the sandbox.
  • If they already think you're one step removed from r/incels, then you're going to have to work really hard to convince them otherwise.
  • As far as I can tell, the offending titles aren't seen as a problem by actual users of the site, but if SE doesn't approve do we need to revisit the policy? 

Umm, isn't worrying about public perception... a good thing?

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silentconfessor•

It's especially sad that they made a technical change more quickly and decisively due to a Twitter user than they due from very popular questions on the dedicated Meta site.

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tresclow•

I think that was the thing that pissed off the most people. From the thread, basically some woke chick clutched pearls about about ableism and sexism on the title of the IPS questions that were showing up in the HNQ and like one day later a developer introduces a global change in the site, kicking out IPS from the Hot Network Questions.

IIRC, the deleted image the tweet is talking about was a screenshot of a question along the lines of "What do I do to get this chick to go away" or something like that.

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tresclow•

I loved so much the crazy shit that used to show up in the HNQ.

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POWERSTOMP•

As a recently departed employee, this is pretty spot on!

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rer1•

The homepage was suddenly changed from the usual list of questions and "Ask" button to a corporate marketing page that obfuscated how to actually get to the free Q&A system

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProgrammerHumor/comments/dc9d8u/have_you_seen_it/

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tldr: capitalism, as usual

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That is not the root cause of everything, and is covered by my (currently) fifth item.

(non-public) New draft changes to the Code of Conduct are both objected to and questioned for clarity

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keithrcout of the loop about being out of the loop•

That seems like more of a sideshow, promoted by people with a specific ax to grind.

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Gender pronouns is the issue over which the respected moderator was fired, though probably not in the way you would expect.

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Answer:

TL;DR:

  1. new community guidelines came out enforcing use of preferred gender pronouns when known
  2. mod (M. Cellio) asks if writing in gender neutral language was acceptable
  3. other mods claim intentionally using gender-neutral terminology was misgendering
  4. M. Cellio is fired without warning after asking for clarification over email.
  5. Other mods feel this was heavy-handed/unnecessary and resign or halt moderation in solidarity/protest.

Source: https://judaism.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/5193/stack-overflow-inc-sinat-chinam-and-the-goat-for-azazel (superscript 1 at bottom of M. Cellio's post)

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KuntaStillSingle•

new community guidelines came out enforcing use of preferred gender pronouns when known

mod (M. Cellio) asks if writing in gender neutral language was acceptable

other mods claim intentionally using gender-neutral terminology was misgendering

This is the kind of thing which lends credence to the notion non-cis people are overly sensitive snowflakes, and that's regretful because that notion shouldn't have any credence. The poor non-gender normative community gets stereotyped over these few perpetual human-shaped sore spots. Gender neutral term is absolutely a reasonable compromise where one party does not believe in transgenderism and the other does, the alternative is the great boogeyman to social conservatives, shoving beliefs down their throat (outside of church.)

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does not believe in transgenderism

you're not allowed to do that anymore.

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Polly_Peptide•

Why would you do that anyway? It's not a matter of belief. Transgender people exist. Saying that one doesn't believe in transgender people is akin to saying you don't believe the speed of light in a vacuum is exactly 299,792,458 meters per second. It's ridiculous.

Not using their preferred pronouns, regardless of your stance toward them, is really such a petty, petulant thing to do. It doesn't hurt you at all, doesn't take up any of your time or mental energy, and helps keep people happy and relations smooth. It's a no-brainer even if you find it ridiculous, because there's nothing to lose by doing it. It's childish to treat the situation like some twisted zero-sum game where you're going to lose everything if you give in.

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andnbspsc•

Of course transgender people exist. And they have every right to exist however they want to. And so does everyone else. No one is on stack overflow on a java script question denying the existence of trans people, and if they are they are being punished for being way off topic.

But there are many different ideas and definitions of exactly what it means to be trans, and we all don't have to agree. We just have to be kind to each other... Some trans people will tell you that they are the same as the gender they have become, some won't. Who gets to decide? No one. We all have to do this together despite our differences.

This shouldn't even be an issue.

I've been benefiting from and contributing to stack overflow for almost as long as it's existed and I've never once thought about the gender of the person I'm interacting with, or given it any weight. It doesn't matter. We are sharing ideas, we are minds interacting.

Sure there are assholes out there, but we don't condone that. If I see someone being shitty to someone, I speak up.

Intentionally, and maliciously misgendering is evil and mean, but being forced to use gendered pronouns is not acceptable. We have the right to interact with each other plainly and without the concept of gender, and we have the right to have different ideas about gender than each other. We don't have to impose them on each other.

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doesn't take up any of your time or mental energy

At least IRL it does take mental energy. If someone looks like a she but wants to be called he, then there is extra mental processing that you have to do vs the she = she pathway that is much easier for your brain to process.

But Stack Exchange makes this worst because of this:

if I deliberately avoid pronouns altogether, whether by carefully avoiding sentences that even need pronouns at all or by sticking to proper names or by disengaging from the individual — those are all being considered insults too if the other party says they are insulted.

Archived source: http://archive.is/Gumxp

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KuntaStillSingle•

Saying that one doesn't believe in transgender people is akin to saying you don't believe the speed of light in a vacuum is exactly 299,792,458 meters per second.

The speed of light in a vacuum isn't a philosophical question, it is a scientific one. What is a "man" or a "woman," is a philosophical question, not a scientific one. This is an absurd false equivalency.

I am all for freedom of identity, but your freedom is to practice your will where it does not tread on others, and to harbor and express your belief where it doesn't cause harm (such as a direct incitement of violence.) In a workplace you have a responsibility to be inoffensive and polite, but you don't have a responsibility to swear an oath under god, renounce mormonism, or recognize anyone's (cis or otherwise) gender identity. It is no less appropriate to refer to a trans man as "they" than it is to refer to a cis man as "they".

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americio•

It's not a matter of belief. Transgender people exist.

As do the colorblind, but they don't ask to stop using the words "red" and "green".

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It means you don't believe it is right to treat transgender people as if they are correct.

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Gender neutral term is absolutely a reasonable compromise where one party does not believe in transgenderism and the other does

just want to point out that the mod (M. Cellio) never made statements that would appear to be trans-averse (of which I am aware); it was because her training as a writer in general emphasized writing to avoid gender.

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vitalmoss•

Having a gender identity seperate from your biological sex is not a mental illness. The feelings associated with the disconnect are.

Regardless, this is off topic and unhelpful.

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ifandbut•

Having a gender identity seperate from your biological sex is not a mental illness.

I would say it is. Something went wrong in your brain as it was developing that lead to a disassociation between who you think you are and what your body says you are. Just like depression is a mental illness because your brain got messed up and produces the wrong chemicals.

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vitalmoss•

English has gender neutral pronouns, and most people don't make a fuss about it. Most people in Leftist circles don't make a fuss about it.

That being said, once you know how someone identifies, it's not that hard to just use the proper pronouns. It requires little effort on someone's part, and only really rankles the fragile right.

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samuelliew•

I created a timeline displaying major events in red: https://stackexchange-timeline.webflow.io

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douira•

gender pronouns

good point, but it's not only about this. Edit: I know this is the spark that lit the flame but it's not the only thing that people are upset about. Now there's a bunch of moderators resigning most of which mentioned a number of different issues in their resignation posts.

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ifandbut•

But, it appears to be what started everything.

Sources: https://judaism.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/5193/stack-overflow-inc-sinat-chinam-and-the-goat-for-azazel (the first person who got fired)

https://christianity.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/6718/brothers-i-must-go (someone explaining what happened in detail)

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It is one hundred percent the spark that lit the flame

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douira•

I know, but it's not the only thing that people are upset about. Now there's a bunch of moderators resigning most of which mentioned a number of different issues in their resignation posts.

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